Been there done that

Job-hopping

2012-02-11T17:25:00.000+08:00

An ex-colleague, a Singaporean, is now flying with Emirates Airlines after 1.5 year with her own national airlines. I really can't understand the reason why the hop. Her family and friends are all here in Singapore, and she could have continued flying with her national airlines. Yet she chose to move out of the comfort zone, and be based in Dubai.

I shall see how long she works over there.

Random Rants

2012-02-10T20:26:00.000+08:00

看着镜子中的自己，唉。。。23岁的年龄，却是32岁的体质。

发现自己的躯壳老了。眼睛周围变得明显干躁，身体某些皮肤部位也一样。机舱内的空气果然好恐怖。

Melbourne (Rendezvous Hotel)

2012-01-10T18:33:00.000+08:00

I am now at Melbourne (Rendezvous Hotel) and the time is 8:50pm.

Melbourne, or rather Rendezvous Hotel, brings back a lot of memories because my very first flight with S_ _ was to this place.

I remember serving a special meal to a wrong passenger onboard, finding it difficult to balance myself during turbulence with a big tray of cups of juices, telling a senior that a passenger asked for tonic water and checking with him if tonic water is a concoction of 1 part tonic and 4 parts water (Very blur!), tailing the senior crew closely in the airports, calling my parents from Melbourne to allay her worry (being the very first training flight), having dinner with 2 of my batch girls at a nearby diner after check-in to hotel, slowly letting reality sink in that I was really in Melbourne, having complimentary buffet breakfast with the crew the next morning, walking around the city with 2 of my batch girls, taking a nap in the evening before the red eye flight back to Singapore, shaving halfway using my electronic shaver the battery ran out and the razor was stucked to my stubble I had to pull it out, calling my batch girls to ask if they could spare me batteries (LOL!), calling the reception to ask for disposable razor.

I find it so amusing that I made those boo-boos. But I am not ashamed of myself.

“The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.” -- John Powell

I like Rendezvous Hotel very much. It's not the grandest hotel, but it has almost everything that travellers will ask for...plenty of power points in the room, good partition between bath area and "make-up" area to keep the floor dry, internet access, complimentary bedroom slippers, complimentary welcome drink of your choice, FCUK toiletries, queen-sized bed, air-con system that doesn't keep blowing cool air even though it is switched off, free buffet breakfast, plenty of good but relatively cheap eateries nearby, supermarkets...

Too bad we will be staying at another hotel soon =( Will miss Rendezvous hotel because this was where I started my flying journey.

I shall post some photos of the hotel room and maybe the hotel few days later. I did not bring camera on this trip but I will be coming back here again 2 days later. Somehow I adjusted my roster and I will be doing 2 Melbourne flights back-to-back!

I tracked back and realized I blogged about my maiden trip to Melbourne: http://quekzhenghao.blogspot.com/2010/09/melbourne-1st-visit.html

2012 新年快乐！

2012-01-08T14:39:00.001+08:00

2011年画下了一个句点，我想我应该做一个总结，算是对自己有一个交待。怎么说自己也正式在社会打转了将近一年半，说长不长，说短不短。

总的来说，我庆幸我的2011年是一个很顺利的一年。当然多多少少发生了一些不愉快的事情，但是这就是人生嘛，不可能一切都完美。

先从工作开始讲起。自从7月份接受商务舱服务训练后，我就正式融入这份工作了。我给了自己几个月的时间去进步，至今差不多驾轻就熟，无论和什么样的乘务长工作都能尽量配合。航程表方面，我没话说，优先考量会是月薪，再来才是去的地点。我想可能是因为自己已经失去了起初刚开始飞的那种兴奋。哪怕是第一次被编排到一个没有去过的国家，我的心情也不会有多大的波动。

可是我得澄清，自己对旅游本来一开始也就没有多大的喜好。现在想一想，啊，以前小时候真正有兴趣的是看着飞机飞行，并不是旅游的那一块。当然能工作同时又能周游列国是难得的，我很珍惜。尤其是最近融入了这份工作后，我发现我会更想去enjoy这份工作所给予的travel benefits。人还年轻，不该让青春留白。

接下来谈谈感情生活。7月份时发生了一段恋情，可惜只维持了几个月的时间。虽然这段恋情可以算是结束了，但现在回想，其实我从中是有得到幸福快乐的。感谢你的出现。在短期内我不打算再进入另一段新恋情，单身或许比较适合我吧。我会挪出多一点时间和爱给家人。

好，现在检讨一下2011年所定下的目标。有做到的我会打个勾.

- Clear /
- Tune /
- J /
- F& /
- Volu X
- 525 /

不错哦，6个当中有达到5个。接下来2012年的目标是：

- 104
- 60
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- Bac
- Fam

大家一起加油，向更好的未来迈进!

Updates...

2011-10-30T05:23:00.003+08:00

I can't believe people still visit my blog even though I have not updated it for a long time.

I guess majority of netizens found my blog via search engines by chance when they look for certain information which I had mentioned before in my blog.

In the past year, I focussed my writing mainly on my life as a globetrotter. I remember in the past before joining the aviation industry, I would try to search for blogs of flight attendants/pilots on the internet and find out more about their lives.

If you always dream about becoming a flight attendant/pilot, then you would definitely be interested to know more about that occupation and the lifestyle that entails. I had always wanted to join the aviation industry. When I was little, I compiled all the airline logos in a document and I could identify most airlines just by one look at the logo on the aircraft fin. I love to witness the moments when the engines roar, aircrafts accelerate and finally take off from the tarmac. It's amazing to see this mass of metallic composite take-off with hundreds of human beings in it.

Anyway, I shall not digress further. I shall update you about my life. I have been trained to work in the business class recently. Business class is a different world altogether. The seats are wider, F&B is better, and the service is run with more finess and elegance.

I look forward to upping my F&B knowledge and skills. This is the main reason why I chose to join the airlines, besides the interest in aircrafts. Of course, the other reason is travelling.

It's not all the time my colleagues are interested in sight-seeing. I fly with different people all the time, and some might have visited the place many times already. There have been several occasions when I want to sight-see but no one is interested. Imagine if you had visited the Golden Gate Bridge before, you probably wouldn't visit the same bridge again and again on your re-visits to the city. I understand and I don't blame anyone. Everyone might have different itineraries...some want personal time, some might have friends in that country, some just want to do shopping.

I know of colleagues who would sight-see on their own when no one is interested. These are the people who really enjoy travelling, and they seize every opportunity to explore new places. I don't mind sight-seeing on my own. In fact, I could have more freedom and control. But it really depends on several factors, such as my energy level, my emotional state, whether the city is safe or not to walk alone on the street etc.

If any of these factors is missing, I would happily "hibernate" in the hotel even though it could be my 1st time to the city. There is so many things I could do in the hotel. I could go to the gym, swim in the pool, enjoy the jaccuzzi or sauna, soak myself in the bath tub, watch the LCD TV, read a book etc! I think my parents would be disappointed if they read this, but I actually sleep better when I am overseas in the hotel (no matter which time zone I am in). My sleep at home, on the other hand, tends to be disruptive..waking up abruptly at odd hours.

You might wonder...I have been to many places...so which is my favourite?

I have a few places in mind. Not in any order of liking: San Francisco, Seoul, Tokyo, Athens.

I like San Francisco because of the food and shopping.
I like Seoul because of the food.
I like Tokyo because of the food, culture, and shopping.
I like Athens because of the surrounding beautiful islands.
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I love my job. And even more so, after I injured my lower back recently. The fear of the pain worsening made me realize "hey, I actually love my job, and I don't wish the pain would cause me to lose my job."

But thank goodness, that injury has since recovered! Phew~ It is easy to lose sight of your direction when what you do every day becomes a routine motion. Yeah, to a large extent that was what happened to me. Day in day out, I do the same thing. Pack...report for flight...unpack...pack...report for flight...unpack...I started questioning myself, where am I heading to? Did i make the right choice?

Some seem to have forgotten how difficult it was to get in, why they wanted this job, and what they hope to achieve? They become cynical and negative at work. If one just goes through the motion, there is no meaning at all. I almost forgot how much and why I wanted this job. The recent lower back injury is a blessing in disguise. It triggered me to reflect.

I was rejected at the interview twice, but I never gave up. I went for the interview again, and I was finally accepted on my third attempt...even so it is not easy to reach where I am today because there were so many tests that we new crew had to pass at the initial stage...from medical screening, to safety and security, first aid competency, customer service basics etc.

Every job has its pros and cons. It's all in the mind. You have to love what you do. And I am glad I still do.

做人

2011-06-25T14:01:00.004+08:00

我这个人不会因为别人说什么而改变我自己。我很清楚这一点。若我是一个容易动摇的人，在这一年里我早就盲目买了很多名牌物品，可是我并没有。如果和一些人相处不高兴，或是志趣不相同，我宁愿抽离自己，也不会虚情假意去试着融入或讨好别人。因为，我觉得这是很虚伪的表现。每个人都有自己的生活范围，一般我不会去干涉或批评别人，但若这些人越过界限侵犯了我的领土，我会非常激动，并且不客气地反驳。

在这行将近一年了。我这一行是一个时时刻刻与人接触的行业。看到的人事物多，渐渐地能洞悉人的心理。最让我感到反感的是自我的人。这种人讲话时通常不经过大脑想一想就讲出来，不会去顾及到他人的感受。以为说出来自己快乐，博人一笑就能口不遮拦，又不是在做节目，我真不了解这些人的用意何在。开玩笑是开玩笑，如果用开玩笑当借口来挖苦别人，那是挖苦。可能有些人会觉得：哎哟，嘴巴是别人的，要讲什么说什么是他们的言论自由。但请搞清楚，言论自由和想说就说只有一线之差。想说就说是自我及不负责任的表现。

可悲的是，我不喜欢的这类人往往是新加坡人。我认识的朋友遍布马来西亚，香港，台湾，中国等。据我所探知，新加坡人在外国人（尤其是东亚人）眼里其实不是很讨喜，一般给人的印象是自大自以为了不起，说话尖酸。就连国际大专辩论会的新加坡选手也是如此，辩论风格带有讽刺味道儿，观众有耳共听。虽然我的登记上指明我是新加坡人，但我极度不认可新加坡人丑陋及自大的表现。马来西亚人很讲义气，朋友之间融洽相处，不像新加坡人做人处事我行我素，划分界限，不懂得人情事故。

我简单举个例子。曾经有一段时间我经常开车上班。下班时便会顺路载一些朋友到附近地铁站。我也没有想过要得到什么回报，心想反正就顺路嘛，他们每天下车时说的一声谢谢就足够了。那么最近我在搭同样朋党其中一位的顺风车时，我下车前感谢他，怎知他竟然反问我的感谢值多少钱，顿时我马上无言，心里感到不是味儿。也许他在开玩笑吧。但不经意的一句话其实背后多多少少有潜意思的。Even casual remarks mean something, if not why would it even cross the person’s mind.

别的国籍我不清楚，但我肯定如果换成是马来西亚朋友，用以上情形为例他们一定会做人，也许以后一同出门时会主动问我是否要搭顺风车或那怕只是买杯咖啡怎么样的来表示谢意。因为工作的关系，我结交到了好多马来西亚朋友。他们离开家人朋友，来到新加坡工作，偶尔我会约他们出来。曾经一个马来西亚好友在计划一同出门时他问我是否可以不要开车，因为他说他会觉得好像在“利用”我。我听了觉得好感动，至少他有记得我的确好几次一同出门时会去载他。其实不是全部的新加坡人都不懂得人情事故。好几次下班时搭我的顺风车的其中一位女生很有心意, 毕业当天她送给我们每人一张照片卡片，内容中有提到并且感谢我。

这就是我指的，会做人。回报并不重要，重要的是心意。

礼多人不怪。如果人人都能有礼相待，背后难听的话少讲，复杂的人际关系其实可以简单一些。打扮得时髦，就算拿着名牌包包，却想法肤浅，说话不友善，还是丑陋的！这就是新加坡人给外地人的印象。不信可以问别人。

It's Amazing how Love can become Instant Dislike

2011-05-31T09:15:00.000+08:00

You don't have to feel sorry.

Cos' I am not upset. And I don't hate you.

I just dislike the way you tried to end it. Dragging it on, making me guess what's on your mind, and cracking my mind thinking of ways to show my sincerity.

If you have told me earlier, I could have moved on with someone else who would look beyond the cons of my job.

Never mind...I am over with you.

So you think this is cool?

2011-05-29T21:09:00.003+08:00

11 months have past just like that. To be honest, I start to feel jaded at times. I dread being away from home. I must clarify that I still love my job - interacting and doing small little things for passengers. I just don't like to be away from my family and friends.

In the first place, the reason why I join the airlines is not because of travelling. I can be in a foreign country for the first time, but may not have any excitement of exploring the place.

I just came back from Amsterdam, and I don't mind telling you I spent half the time in my hotel room. I went out only on the 1st day for dinner with the crew. 2 girls invited me to join them for sightseeing on the 2nd day but I declined. I made use of the time to rest/sleep, and I am proud to say I did some reading too.

All cities seem the same to me. "London Bridge is falling down." That's nonsense. London Bridge is still there, but you know what? 2 times in London and I haven't visited the London Bridge, nor the London Eye. I don't care. Some people like to pose and take picture of themselves with the famous landmarks. I mean what's the point? Yeah, it's nice to capture memories. But huh? It's so shallow. Some friends asked me if I keep track of the number of places that I have been to.

That's shallow.

It's not the number of places you have been to that impresses. It's how much you know the places that represents your depth. The culture, the history etc.

Last time before I joined the airlines, I thought that the idea of being in different countries all the time is cool. Well to some extent, I still think it's cool. I mean, how many people can do that? If you are a desk-bound office lad/lady, you will be stucked to your desk/cubicle most of the day, except for lunch maybe? But this job is different. There are many opportunities for you to play and eat good food! And make friends. Interact with colleagues, passengers from all over the world, and the locals wherever you are...

Some people say this is an ideal job for extroverts. Hmmm, I don't agree fully but I shall not elaborate the reason here. I am glad I am a bit of both (extrovert and introvert).

All in all, this job is cool. Just that sometimes when things happened in Singapore and you need to be there...but you can't be there...that feeling sucks. My granny passed away and I was in Athens for a week. Yeah, this is just one example.

Thanks for reading. I feel better now.

Singapura, Oh Singapura!

2011-04-23T03:16:00.003+08:00

*Singapura is the Malay translation of Singapore.

Thanks for visiting my blog despite my infrequent updates.

It has been a busy month. Most of the time, I am not in Singapore; even when I am, I lead a night life by choice.

I find it really pleasant to do things at night when most people are asleep. It is quiet. It is cooling (unlike in the day).

Mustafa Centre has become one of my favourite hangouts at night. It never closes, and everything is there...from toiletries to electronics, from fresh produce to dry stores. If you have been following my blog, you would have read that there is a 24-hr money changer at Mustafa Centre. It is a one-stop shopping centre, caters to every need and every age group.

I am on close terms with a few Malaysians recently. The relationship started as colleagues. As we hang out more often, I realize I really enjoy their company very much. We have done many things together. Things that I have never done with Singaporean friends. I am surprised how open-minded and adventurous I have become.

One night, we came up abruptly with an idea to visit Johor for supper. It was unplanned, and we just proceeded. I was the only Singaporean. After supper at Johor, we developed the idea further and we drove up to Malacca! In 3 hours' time, we arrived at Malacca's popular place of interest - Jonker Street. Had wanted to eat the chicken rice ball, but too bad all the shops were closed by then. At least I saw the Melaka River and A'Famosa Fort.

On another occasion, we started our night with supper at Geylang. After that, we went to Mustafa Centre and spent the whole night shopping for groceries. We had breakfast nearby - the Indian Muslim style. We chatted over teh-tarik, before calling it a day.

I realize Singaporeans and Malaysians are quite different in their thinking. I shall not go into the details. Let's just put it this way. Singaporean friends around my age would probably raise their eyebrows and make comments like, "Supper at Geylang?!"..."Mustafa Centre?!"...

I don't blame them. This is how we have been brought up here in Singapore. In fact, I am a young Singaporean myself, the only difference is that I have some Malaysian blood in me (my mother was a Malaysian).

Most of the time when I hang out with fellow Singaporeans, we only go to places like Orchard, City Hall, Somerset etc because we can't think of elsewhere to go. The truth is, there are many other places in Singapore that are interesting. Just because people rarely go, Singaporeans tend to perceive these places as uncool. Honestly, what is most uncool to me is the narrow-mindedness of these citizens.

If you want to be sophiscated, start with your thinking, Singaporeans. It's not just what you do, where you go, or what you wear.
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Singapore has a well-developed international airport, but it is not the best in the world.

Singapore passport grants us visa-free entries to many countries, but it is not 100% visa-free.

New Singapore passports have a biometric chip in it, but Singapore is not the first country that introduced this.

Singapore developed the technology to desalinate seawater or to purify dirty water, but most of our water supply is still imported.
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Stop being complacent. Singapore is a nice place to live in, but don't forget Singapore is small, very small.

What is in My Luggage?

2011-04-09T20:02:00.002+08:00

On 5th February 2011, I wrote a post about travel essentials, i.e. things that frequent travellers should bring along in their luggage.

Today I am revisiting this topic but it will be more personal. I uploaded photos to give you a better idea of what's in my luggage.

Updates

2011-03-30T08:10:00.000+08:00

Life's been good recently. I am not exactly busy. I guess I am just lazy to blog.

I bought a new camera! Sony WX7. It is a good purchase.

Argh, I am lazy to type. I shall stop here.

London, United Kingdom (2nd Visit)

2011-03-08T04:44:00.005+08:00

The exciting part about my job is that on certain days of the month, I won't know where the next destination is. I will have my mobile phone by my side at all times, and if it rings, the notification could be a 4-day trip to Europe, a 9-day trip to the United States or merely a 1-day trip to neighbouring countries.

I just came back from London last morning. I was supposed to go Auckland but like I mentioned above, there is an element of surprise in my job and things change spontaneously. During my first visit to London, I fell sick so I didn't really do much over there. I knew there would be many chances to visit London again. And I am right. In less than 2 weeks, I was at London again.

I am lucky to have Sunil, Sham and Cindy accompanying me on this trip. We ate at many places together, like Bugis Street Restaurant, Malaysian Hall...And we chatted about many things. Sometimes, it's not exactly what you do that matters; it's whom you hang out with that makes the trip interesting. Besides eating, we also did shopping at Oxford Street. Primark is really cool. It is a 2-storey departmental store and everything in the store is so gorgeous and cheap.

On the second day, almost my entire set of crew went to Bayswater and we had a sumptuous lunch at Gold Mine Restaurant. This restaurant is must-go; somehow the crew will always make it a point to have a meal together at this restaurant when we are in London. Anyway, we had an oriental-style lunch consisting of many courses. I ate so much!

Water cress soup, roast duck, roast chicken, oyster omelette, salmon fishcake, braised tofu, stir-fry spinach, deep-fried squid...I can't remember what else.
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One thing I realize is that the things in Singapore are generally overpriced. To be more specific, I am referring to the personal care products for hair and skin. I guess the reason is because we don't have any local brands to begin with, and so we import foreign brands like L'Oreal, Dove etc. Obviously they would cost more in Singapore.

A 100ml hair spray (Toni & Guy) only cost about 2 pounds!

And you know what? I repeated a same stupid mistake.

I forgot about the LAG restriction for all flights departing out of London and I didn't pack my luggage carefully before I checked out of the hotel.

I had a huge bottle of body fragrance (from Bath and Body Works) in my cabin bag and I only realized it when I took out my laptop at the security checkpoint. By then it was too late.

It had to be disposed.

Security staff: "Hey, this (bottle of fragrance) is too big. You can't bring it in."

Last time it was manuka honey (in Christchurch). And now, a rather new bottle of body fragrance. It should have been checked-in in my cargo bag.

Argh.

T.G.I.Friday's @ The Heeren, Somerset

2011-02-28T13:48:00.004+08:00

Date of Visit:
27 Feb 2011

Day of Visit:
Sunday

Time of Visit:
5:00PM to 7:40PM

Item(s) Ordered:
Ribeye Steak Medium Rare
Onion Rings
Broccoli in Garlic Butter
Tropical Sprinter (A refreshing drink. Not too bad.)

Quality of Food and Beverage:
5.5 / 10

Staff Service:
6.0 / 10

The staff only says what's minimal,
"Can I take your orders now?"
"Let me repeat your orders."

No niceties such as "enjoy your meal". Smiles are rare. Typical customer service standards in Singapore.

Crowd:
Not very crowded when my friends and I arrived at 5:00PM. The crowded started to come in after 7:00PM.

Noise Level:
~~Quiet~~ / Low / ~~Moderate / Noisy~~

Even when the crowd came in after 7:00PM, the noise level was still reasonably low, possibly because it is a open restaurant.

Background Music:
No

Lighting:
Natural sunlight before sunset. Comfortable lighting after sunset.

Other Comments:
There is no aircon on both floors. The ground floor is a bar, whereas the 2nd floor is more of a open concept restaurant. We sat on the 2nd storey near the staircase facing cineleisure. As we were seated quite far from the ceiling fans, it was slightly warm at first. But after the sun set, it felt cooler.

Overall Verdict:
I will NEVER visit this eatery again. The steak is a huge disappointment. It is very salty. The 1st bite was still acceptable but subsequently each bite was a turn-off. I was expecting the medium-rare beef to be succulent but sad to say, it was not. I asked for mushroom sauce, but very little sauce was added, and somehow everything evaporated after a while!

Can you imagine this? A slab of pinkish meat, heavily seasoned and salted, with no sauce to accompany. I had to dip each cut of meat with some tomato ketchup to neutralize the saltiness, so that each bite would be less torturing.

The side dishes (onion rings and broccoli) were significantly nicer than the beef, but how bad can onion rings or broccoli be? I can get the same thing elsewhere at a cheaper price.

The beef and 2 side dishes cost about SGD$50 after service charge and G.S.T. I am a beef lover and I have eaten beef in many countries. I don't understand why I have to pay so much for this meal. I ate only half of the steak and I surrendered.

"Pay so much to learn a lesson - not to come back here again." That's what a friend commented. A check with other friends revealed that their food was only so-so, just like the customer service.

Address:
#01-k5, 260 Orchard Road
The Heeren
Singapore 2388855
+65 6737 4222
+65 6737 4302

Website:
http://www.fridays.com.sg/

No Matter Where You Go

2011-02-27T11:04:00.000+08:00

When you do something over and over again, it becomes a routine after a while. No, I am referring to my job. I am referring to what happens after I check in at the hotel.

To satisfy your curious mind, this is what I usually do after I get the room key from the reception.

1) Check the entire room to make sure there is no defect
2) Ensure connecting door is locked
3) Place valuables and important documents in the safe
4) Look out of the windows and observe which part of the hotel I am at
5) Hang the Do-Not-Disturb sign on the door knob outside
6) Double latch the door
7) Place luggage at a corner and open up the luggage
8) Take toiletries bag out from luggage and place it in the toilet
9) Boil a flask of water and allow it to cool
10) Take food items out from luggage and place them near the coffee/tea making facility
11) Place perishables in refrigerator, if available.
12) Rinse the cups, teaspoons and water glasses.
13) Adjust the location of trash bins for better convenience
14) Take the laundry bag from the wardrobe, place it near the toilet, and use it to contain my dirty clothes
15) Place a rug (usually provided) near the shower facility to keep the floor as dry as possible

In my opinion, all these little acts help to maintain the cleanliness and order in the room. If you also realise, I try to situate things of the same kind together. When it comes to time to pack up, it becomes an easy chore, and the chance of forgetting to pack an item becomes lower.

No doubt, yes, it's a hotel room and after you check out, somebody will clear up the mess for you. However, no matter where you go I personally believe that how you organize things and what you do reflect your character and upbringing.

Any disagreement?

Money Issue

2011-02-25T06:19:00.007+08:00

As interesting as one may think of travelling, there are several disadvantages about being a frequent traveller. Today, I shall touch on the monetary aspect.

I am writing this post because I just calculated the amount of foreign currencies I have in my drawer. And I realized I have so much of them I could buy a laptop if I were to convert all of them back to Singapore Dollars (SGD).

You may then wonder, why don't I make a more precise estimation in the first place of how much I would need, before I change SGD to foreign currencies?

Well...my answer is if I could do that, I would have done that.

Sometimes, it is difficult to estimate how much is needed for each overseas trip, because it depends on many surprise factors such as the itinerary, which is usually confirmed only after landing at the destination.

So to play safe, there would be a tendency of changing slightly more than what is needed.

Another disadvantage about changing money so frequently is the loss of some money through each transaction with money changers. Don't get what I am saying? You see, just like any other businesses, money changers make their profits by buying and selling currencies.

Let me give you an example of what I mean:

Originally I might have SGD 1774.

After changing to Euro Dollars (EUR) for instance, I get EUR 1000.

This amount of EUR 1000 is only equivalent to about SGD 1740 if I were to make a reverse exchange (EUR to SGD).

Even though I did not actually "spend any money", just by changing money to another currency I lose SGD 34 worth of money.

Essentially, you lose some money through each currency exchange. And this brings me back to the point about changing slightly more money than what you would need in your country before going abroad. Yes, of course you can change money again overseas when you do not have enough. However, the more transactions you make, the more money you lose, especially when you are overseas (the money changers MAY charge taxes and adminstrative fee).

It is also possible to withdraw money using your usual Automated Teller Machine (ATM) cards from the ATM overseas. However as far as I know, there would be an adminstrative charge, say SGD 5, for each ATM transaction. And the amount of money you withdraw is subject to the lousy bank rates.

So except for emergency cases, why even think about withdrawing from ATM overseas?!

Service from the Heart (Part 2)

2011-02-21T09:45:00.000+08:00

In my previous post "Service from the Heart" dated 25 Jan 2011, I wrote about how I interacted with the passengers on a flight from Melbourne-Singapore.

Today, I am blogging with the same title again, but this time it is on a different flight, Zurich-Singapore. I just touched down into Singapore 3 hours ago. Actually I should be resting now after the 12-hour flight, but I decided to blog now before sleeping so that I could capture what's in my mind.
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A while after take-off, this 94 year-old lady said she felt cold when I passed by her seat and she requested for one more pair of socks in addition to the one that she was already wearing.

After listening, immediately I knew what I could do to ease her discomfort.

I politely excused myself for a moment, and came back to her with the additional pair of socks she requested. But that's not all. I also got an additional blanket as well as a cup of warm water.

12-hour journey in an aircraft is very long and can be very uncomfortable for some people, especially the aged. I talked to the old lady and served her like how hope my granny would be treated by the crew if she were to be on a flight too.

Throughout the flight, I spoke to her every now and then and checked on her well-being.

Finally when we landed, I helped her to pull the luggage, saw her to the aircraft door and bade her farewell. Before she left, she held my hand with both of hers, and gave me the heartiest handshake.

"谢谢你，郭先生，谢谢你，谢谢。"

("Thank you, Mr Quek, thank you. Thank you.")

It warmed my heart on the spot.

One day, she might forget how I look. She might also forget my surname. But that's not important.

What matters most to me is...she disembarked with a smile on her face. And that is my best reward, knowing that I have done a good job in ensuring that the long flight was pleasant for her.

Save 2 X 7% GST on Shopping at Changi Airport

2011-02-18T04:46:00.001+08:00

Quoted from http://www.changiairport.com/shopping-and-dining/save-2x-7-percent-gst-on-shopping

Flying or not, Changi Airport absorbs 7% GST for purchases at public areas all year round. From now till 27 March 2011, you get to enjoy even more savings! Get an additional 7% savings with no minimum spend required, when you shop at participating retail outlets at our public areas. Take your pick from more than 40 participating retail stores below!

Date/Time: 28 January 2011 – 27 March 2011
Venue: Terminals 1, 2, 3 and Budget Terminal (Public Areas)

Terminal 1
Bengawan Solo
Nuance-Watson Perfumes & Cosmetics
The Cocoa Trees
Watson's

Terminal 2
Carlo Rino
Chocolates & Candy
Chomel
Delsey
Hudson
Kedai Kue Kue
Mini Bits
Mini Princess
Mini Toons
Nuance-Watson Perfumes & Cosmetics
Pocket Full of Posies
SK Jewellery
Urban Concepts
Watsons

Terminal 3
Blush
Bengawan Solo
Candy Empire
Chomel
Eu Yan Sang
Helen
iemon + paris (Closing mid March)
Kidztime (B2 Mall)
Kidztime (Mezzanine Level)
Mini Bits
Mini Toons
Nuance-Watson Perfumes & Cosmetics
Periwinkle (Closing end Feb)
Samsonite
San Shu Gong
Sunglass Hut
Swatch
SK Jewellery (Opening early Feb)
The Cocoa Trees
Times Travel
Watsons

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Changi Airport had the same sales promotion a few months ago. I bought a few things and I remember they were substantially cheaper.

London, United Kingdom (1st Visit)

2011-02-16T00:43:00.003+08:00

I just came back from London.

It's a pity I caught the flu bug and most of my time was spent sleeping in the hotel room. Luckily I was vaccinated a few months before; this bout of flu was mild and I recovered within a short period. I am still coughing though, I guess it will take a while for the residual cough to subside.

Despite falling ill, this trip to London was not exactly uneventful. On the day of arrival, my set of crew and I went to Bayswater and had the famous roasted duck for dinner. I have heard so much about the Bayswater roasted duck. I am glad I finally tasted it. The food is good, and I will definitely visit this restaurant again. If you are going in a big group, do order the set lunch/dinner. The waiter will serve many dishes in the centre of the table and you help yourself...the Chinese-style.

In the evening on the day of arrival, I met Gerald and we had a meal together. It is nice to be able to catch up with a good friend abroad. After the meal, we went to a cafe for coffee. Due to jet-lag and minimal rest, I was actually very tired by then. But I tried to keep myself going.

I would love to visit London again! I love hearing the British English. It's so authentic and beautiful. Singapore was once a British colony but our English is nowhere near theirs.

A Very Beautiful Commercial

2011-02-08T21:35:00.001+08:00

It has a soothing background music and singing. Smooth transition between cities.

A very beautiful commercial indeed.

20 Uses of an Airsickness Bag

2011-02-06T17:10:00.000+08:00

• Quick, humorous gift bag for presents
• Lunch bag for bananas or loose items like chips
• Bookmark
• Used feminine products bag
• Doodle pad for writing info
• Holder for travel receipts
• Dog poop bag
• Unfold and make origami for amusement
• Holder for articles you rip out of newspapers or magazines
• Holder for litter disposal
• Emergency spectacles case
• Coaster
• Holder for ladies' hair pins
• Holder for damp soap or wet toothbrush
• Emergency hand gloves for handling biological substance
• Instant vase for wildflowers picked outside hotel
• Make hand puppet to amuse self, flight attendant or nearby children
• Practise signing your name
• Mailing envelope for letters or pictures
• Last but not least, for vomiting

So...what's this relationship?

2011-02-06T13:31:00.005+08:00

I don't know.

I don't know what's on your mind either.

I just know reading your sms-es makes me happy, whatever the content is. And I am excited to check my handphone whenever there is a sms...because it could be from you.

Arthur called me last night to catch up for a while. He asked, "最近在感情方面有什么发展?"

Haha, this Arthur is so bitchy but funny as usual. I didn't know how to answer his question, because I also don't know what this current relationship is.

Maybe time will tell?

How Much I Wanted this Job

2011-02-06T07:10:00.014+08:00

The Day before Interview - 07 May 2010

I went to cut my hair at Jean Yip. It was done by my regular hairdresser Patrick. After the cut, my hair was short and neat. My mother commented that I looked more youthful with short hair.

Then I went to trim my eyebrows at Cos Lab. It cost $10. I have to trim my eyebrows because they are thick. I trimmed my eyebrows with the hope of appearing friendlier, for the sake of the grooming check (Round 2).

In the evening, I ironed my shirt and pants. I also polished the black shoes to give them some shine.

I slept at about +08:00 GMT 11:00PM that night. I woke up at 6.30AM the next morning. I felt so thankful; I managed to sleep well. I could feel positive aura surrounding me. It must be the fairy angels.

In the Morning on the Day of Interview - 08 May 2010

My family members were still asleep when I woke up. I made my own breakfast, and had a cup of coffee. The breakfast was pleasant and definitely kick-started the day on the right note!

Then I went to wash up, change up, wax my hair, and put on the tie. I grabbed a pair of black socks and put it on. I noticed there was a big hole at the heel area. Since the hole would be well-hidden in the shoes, I thought it probably wouldn't get noticed. I am so glad that I changed to a new pair of socks. You will know why later as you read on.

I remember it was about 7.40AM and I was ready to go. I had a choice of taking the public transport or driving there. If I take the train, it would be a 10-minute walk from my house to the nearest MRT station, follow by a 30-minute ride, and another 10-minute walk to the interview venue. I didn't want to perspire so I decided to drive. Wise decision!

Arrival at the Interview Venue

I left home at 7:40AM. It took about 20 minutes or so to drive from my place to the interview venue. In my first two attempts, I also drove hence I was familiar with the route and there was no need to check the road directory. One really has to be in his/her most tip-top condition at the interview. One aspect includes the mental state. I know how to go there, where the carpark is, how much the carpark charges are, where to register, where the washrooms are, where the holding area is etc. I knew what was going on, and my mind was in a relaxed state. Your mental state affects your emotion, which manifests in the way you act or speak.

After I parked the car at the basement, I went up to the registration area. I was surprised that there was no queue. "Am I early?" I wondered for a moment. I looked at my watch. It was 8.15AM. The website says, "...registration between 9am and 1pm". By right, I should be 45 minutes early. It was only after a while then I realized that the staff had started registration. My goodness. I was not that early after all. There were already 13 or 14 groups in front of me. Each group has 10 people. I can't remember which group I was in. I submitted my application form in exchange for a number sticker - that was the group number.

While waiting for our turn to enter round 1, I noticed the girl on my left suddenly started searching around her seat. I asked if she needed any help. She looked at me, and explained that her number sticker was missing. I also tried to find it but to no avail. Having been there twice, I know the number sticker is just for own reference. I offered to give her my number sticker. She seemed quite surprised. I told her, "You can have my sticker."

She hesitated. I offered again, but she declined politely. She then excused herself and after 5 minutes or so, she came back with a new number sticker. She appeared calmer than before. We chatted and I found out from her that she is a Malaysian who has worked in Singapore for a few years. Our conversation was short. Soon it was our turn. The group stood up and walked towards the interview room.

Round 1 (Group Interview)

"Good morning!" The 2 interviewers were friendly. They greeted us first and we greeted them back. I was the 3rd person to speak. I was originally calm, but I became nervous when it was my turn to speak. My legs were vibrating beyond my control. I tried my best to calm my nerves but they were still vibrating. I spoke in a tone as jovial as possible with the hope of masking my fright. That was my 3rd time at the interview. I just couldn't understand why I was so nervous. In the past 2 attempts, I spoke calmly.

Come to think of that now, I finally understand why I was nervous. In my first attempt, there was no pressure because...well...it was my first attempt and I just wanted to see how far I could go. Then in my second attempt, I made it to the 1-on-1 interview round. That created a sub-conscious expection of myself to pass round 1 in my 3rd attempt. So I was subject to an invisible pressure.

After everyone had finished speaking, we then proceeded outside to wait for the results. A lady came out from the room with a pile of documents on her hands. She announced the names of people who passed. Thank goodness, I passed round 1!

Administrative Verifications

We then proceeded back to the same venue where we were held on earlier. There was a long queue of people waiting to have their height and weight measurements taken. These were the people who had passed round 1. Look at their faces! All beaming with hope. Most were chatting in small groups, most likely about their experience in round 1. While waiting in the queue, I got to know Rubee and Michelle. Haha! These 2 pretty girls are friendly and smiley.

Anyway, remember I mentioned about changing to another pair of socks? I am so glad that I did. Before height and weight measurements are taken, candidates have to remove their shoes. It would be so embarrassing had I not changed to another pair of socks. Every small detail matters.

After our height and weight measurements were taken, we waited to have our educational certificates and identity checked.

It is hard to be eliminated here, unless you are found to be shorter than the height requirement. Another possibility is, say, you forgot to bring some documents. It's a pity to be eliminated here. Just make sure you read the website carefully beforehand, and bring all the documents required.

Round 2 (Grooming Check)

We waited for our turn to enter the room. It was quite a long wait. I brought some sweets with me, took them out and started eating. The girls behind me noticed that I was eating sweets, and one asked if they could have some too. If I remember correctly, Michelle was the one who asked. Of course I offered them my sweets. Cos' I am nice =P

Finally, it was our turn. There were 2 parts in this round. The first part required us to remove our shoes (thank goodness I changed to another pair of socks), and then to do a "cat walk". Just walk naturally, like how you would do so every day.

The second part was the skin check. My complexion is not flawless but I am lucky to pass this round too! I believe that the assessor focuses not only on whether a candidate has good complexion, but also on the ability to maintain calmness and project jovialness while the skin examination was being done.

Round 3 (Teamwork Game, 1-to-1 Interview)

After being put into 2 teams, we played a card game. On the surface, it seemed to be a simple test of memory but I think there was more to that. The interviewers told us the instructions, I listened very carefully and then we had a lot of fun! Michelle was in the same team as me and we won!

After the game, we went out of the room and waited for our turn to be interviewed (yes, once again), but this time it is 1-to-1. My interviewer asked me many questions. I guess she was trying to assess how genuine and sincere I am.

Here are my views. There are many perks that come with being a crew; one of which is the opportunity to travel. Personally, I feel that one should not be too obssessed with the desire to travel. Imagine going to a same country over and over again. It's a matter of time before the excitement diminishes. Ideally, real job motivation should come from the joy of meeting new faces and being hospitable.

At the end of the day, it really boils down to the job-personality fit. I remember there was this girl, she was so quiet and reserved. She managed to pass round 1, but was eliminated after round 2.

Round 4 (Interview by Management Staff) - 09 May 2010

Those who passed round 3 on 08 May 2010 had to return the following day for the final round. It's an interview again, but this time it is at small group level.

In this round, I met Shin, Yu Ping and Stephanie. During the question-and-answer, I tried my best to articulate clearly. I remember I used some Singlish too, but it was used deliberately to express humour. The four of us helped one another along. What drew us together? The desire to be hired by this leading company in the industry.

I couldn't ask for better "comrades" in this round. Till now Shin, Yu Ping, Stephanie and I are still in contact with one another on facebook. In fact I just did a flight with Stephanie last month.

P/S: I attempted not just once, but thrice at the interviews before I was finally accepted and hired. The reason for writing this post? To remind myself of how much I wanted this job.

Travel Essentials

2011-02-05T09:19:00.002+08:00

1. Travel adaptor
Reason: I would think that this is the most important item on the list. The chargers for your portable electronic devices are as good as nothing if you do not have a travel adaptor.

2. Laptop
Reason: This is second on the list. A laptop is especially important to people who are in a relationship and can't survive without skype-ing or webcam-ing with their partner before going to bed.

3. Mobile phone
Reason: Disaster or political unrest can happen anytime, anywhere. Equipping yourself with a mobile phone means you can contact your loved ones to inform of the situation and allay their worry. In the worst case scenario, you can tell them your final words before you die. LOL.

4. Drystores (biscuits, cup noodles, hot beverage sachets etc)
Reason: Some places have a high standard of living. If you live on a tight budget or if you should feel hungry at odd hours during the night, drystores become your best friend!

5. Electric water boiler (travel-size)
Reason: Some hotels do not provide electric water boiler. No hot water means no cup noodles, no hot coffee.

6. Luggage strap
Reason: Time is money and cargo baggage has to be transferred quickly from point to point within the airport. In case the locking mechanism of your baggage becomes faulty one day due to rough handling, the luggage strap can act as an additional feature to secure the baggage.

7. Foldable storage bag
Reason: You never know when you need the extra space! This is especially important for people who tend to buy on impulse.

8. Credit card
Reason: Buy now, pay later!

人善被人欺

2011-02-05T08:26:00.002+08:00

一些人真的很没品。我人好，偏偏人善被人欺。

我不想在这里多说什么。换个乐观角度来想，其实有些事看开就算了。

人生不就数十寒暑。伤心也是一天，开心也是一天，倒不如开心得过。

忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空。。。

Service from the Heart

2011-01-25T19:07:00.007+08:00

I just came back on a Melbourne-Singapore flight. This is the best flight I have done so far in my flying career.

Why, you may ask.

The load was light but that is not the reason. The reason is because I feel that I have done my best to reach the next level of true customer service. All thanks to my fellow colleagues as well because we work as a team.

Some passengers and I had friendly conversations during free time.

I varied my service language when I was doing service.

I smiled from the bottom of my heart to every passenger...not out of courtesy, but I genuinely felt this happiness when I was interacting with them. And somehow this aura you radiate is influential. People can see and tell that you are sincere and they reciprocate!
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I shan't elaborate further, but all I can say is I am feeling a genuine sense of satisfaction right now...

Recalling the little things that touch my heart...

A passenger commented that I am polite.

Some told me that they were impressed with the in-flight experience.

And during a conversation with a married couple, they even offered to give me their number! "...When you come to Melbourne again, give us a call and we will show you around!..." Afraid that I would be of inconvenience, I had to decline politely but their kind intention really touches my heart, even till now when the flight is over.

During disembarkation, I stood at the door and bade my "guests" goodbye as if I was the host of a dinner. In my heart, I was hoping that everyone had enjoyed the flight and that all of them would do well in the lives ahead.

On one hand, I was tired and was looking forward to going home, yet on the other hand, I actually felt a little disappointed that these new "friends" are leaving.

People looked into my eyes, smiled, and said "Thank you".

This sense of satisfaction is just amazing!

What is true customer service? Now I really know. It is service from the heart.

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P/S: I am writing this post because I want to capture this lovely experience on the day itself.

做这行的苦与乐

2011-01-25T04:12:00.002+08:00

在 Melbourne 呆的时间本来就已经很短，这次多数的时间我都在睡觉，根本没有踏出酒店。原本想到位于 Melbourne 市中心 Swanston Street 有名的 Mekong 越南牛肉面餐馆用餐，但酒店房间很舒服，结果我懒得出去。

下榻 Melbourne Rendezvous Hotel 好的地方就在有免费的自助早餐。我刚刚吃完早餐。好美味的一餐。当地时间早上6点整（新加坡时间凌晨3点整）我是酒店餐馆的第一个食客！

我进了餐馆之后，陆陆续续也有其他人加入，但还是不多人。人少，多的反而是一片清静。人接触多了，我特别享受那种独自一人的感觉。

话不投机半句多。有时候，与其和不熟的人说些片面之词，倒不如一人默默享受独处的自在。

我不是孤僻。我可能只是选择性变得比较内向。

我也搞不太懂。

What I bought from Lotte Mart, Seoul

2011-01-23T03:50:00.002+08:00

I bought many food items from Lotte Mart. Some are not as tasty as they look, and most probably I won't buy them again.

This post is written for my own reference. Should I visit Seoul again, I would have an idea how much money to bring and what items to buy.

*Korean instant noodle                                       4,980 won
*Korean chilli paste                                              970 won
Pre-cooked instant beef stew                             1,970 won
Pre-cooked instant beef curry                            1,970 won
*Pre-cooked instant curry (different brand)         2,650 won
Chocolate waffles biscuit                                  2,380 won
Preserved seaweed (300 grams)                       8,737 won
Preserved ikan bilis (300 grams)                       12,816 won
Seaweed packed in ziplock bag                        2,780 won
*Lotte Mart kimchi (3.5 kilogram)                    16,500 won
*Chocolate coated cake (a box of 27 pieces)      4,910 won

*Strongly recommended!

North Asian Good Food

2011-01-20T20:15:00.003+08:00

Disclaimer: This post is written for my own reference.

Japan:    Beef
Kobe Beef 神户牛肉, Matsuzaka Beef 松板牛肉
- Kobe Beef = cuts of beef from the black Tajima-ushi breed of Wagyu cattle
- 3 best parts of wagyu beef are: Sirloin 沙朗, Tenderloin 牛柳, Rib Roast 里脊肉 (usually for shabu shabu and sukiyaki)
- There is a famous restaurant for Kobe beef at Ginza, Tokyo. It is a high-end shopping district. The name of the restaurant is not known, but the name of the chef is 松野正雄.

South Korea:   Soup
Samgyetang = Ginseng chicken soup
Miyoguk = Seaweed soup (has the ability to heal, people usually drink it on birthday)
Haejang guk = Hangover soup 解酒汤
Bok guk = Puffer fish soup
Sulphur duck 硫磺烤鸭

Taiwan:   Oyster delights
台北．圓環頂蚵仔煎 (原順發號蚵仔煎) ＠吳興街夜市
圓環頂蚵仔煎 (原順發號蚵仔煎)
台北市吳興街269巷5號 (近台北醫院)
０２-２７２０-９５０５
早上10半至晚上12點整，無定休

蚵爺Fried Oyster Puff

Wang Gong 蚵仔炸

蚵仔顏面綫

Hong Kong:   Dimsum
林香樓 Lin Heung Tea House, famous for shrimp dumpling (har gau)

Best selling items in order of popularity:
1） Har gau
2） Siu mai
3） Chai siew bau

添好運烤叉燒包

裕富小廚鵪鶉蛋燒賣
- 1st batch of steamed buns ready at 4am.
- Steamed har gau at 5am.
- Steamed chicken bundles and beef at 7am.

得龍大飯店

Japan:   Japanese Curry
Bondy Curry (European style Japanese Curry)
Nearest Station Jimbocho
Address 2-3 Jimbocho, Kanda, Chiyoda-ku, Tokyo
Telephone 03-3234-2080
Home Page http://www.bondy.co.jp (In Japanese)
Business Hours 11:00am-10:00pm
Price Lunch: 1,000-1,999yen Dinner: 1,000-1,999yen
Occasion Good for Solo, Group

Cafe Terrace Wood Island
Navy Curry
Address 〒238-0008 1-4,Odakicho,Yokosuka
Direction 3 mins on foot from base main gate(beside the womble gate)
TEL/FAX 046-827-4790　/　046-827-4790
Holiday Open 7 days
Opening Hour 11:30 – 19:00

CoColchibanya (The Japanese Curry House)
http://www.fuji.co.th/2009/TH/fujigroup/CocoIchibanya.php

Magic Spice Curry
http://dw38638.blogspot.com/2010/07/magic-spice-soup-curry-shimokitazawa.html

Shanghai, China:   Soup Dumpling
上海南翔鎮=湯包發源地
南翔小籠包
宗記南翔小籠舘

（位于上海160km距離）靖江蟹黃大湯包=鴻運湯包

城隍庙松运楼=吸管湯包 /鱼翅蟹粉灌汤包

十味觀=無色湯包

小楊生煎舘= 黄河路97号电话：021-63596560

Zhang Hua, Taiwan:   Meat Ball
北斗肉圓生，肉圓瑞=臺灣彰化肉圓鼻祖

老担阿彰肉圓

彰化市阿三肉圆

嘉义市=黑皮酥皮肉圆=very big like baby face

Hong Kong:   Roasted / Braised goose
镛记炭烤烧鹅but very expensive

深井裕记烧鹅

潮州巷-陈勤记卤鹅饭店

Si Chuan, China:   Spicy Hotpot
四川，成都火锅。

在重庆四川　　　－　火锅
在广东　　　　　－　打边炉
在日本　　　　　－　shabu shabu
江苏和浙江一带　－　暖锅
在北京　　　　　－　涮锅

北平楼：涮羊肉。羊肉汤用的是清水．

Seoul, South Korea (1st Visit)

2011-01-19T23:59:00.007+08:00

I love kimchi and korean food.

I guess that's probably the main reason why I look forward so much to visiting Seoul.

Can you believe this? I bought 3.5 kilograms of Kimchi from Lotte Mart. A colleague commented, "Wow, it looks like you bought a bag of rice." That's how much I LOVE kimchi and I can't have enough of it.

Koreans love to accompany every meal with a few side dishes. There are many different kinds, such as preserved ikan bilis, preserved oysters, preserved potato, preserved cucumber, kimchi, salted bean sprouts etc. As far as I know, they are served free-of-charge.

They are mostly preserved and strong-flavoured. Some are so tasty you can just eat them on their own. But most dishes have to be eaten with rice to counter the saltiness.

^Bulgogi (marinated barbecued beef served with steamed rice)

As for main dishes, I love bulgogi the most. I had that almost every day when I was in Seoul.

The weather is so cold. Brrrrrr...I almost died one evening. Let me tell you what happened. My original plan was to have dinner at the eatery opposite the hotel, so I didn't wear a lot. (You know, it is very troublesome to wear many layers of clothings. I was lazy.) After dinner, I decided to check out a shop near the hotel. This was unplanned. Well, I thought I could endure the cold since it's just 5 minutes away by foot. Apparently, I underestimated the Korean winter. It was the first time I shivered in the cold and felt like I was going to die of hypothermia.

I am not kidding. And mind you, I was already wearing a winter jacket but the cold air could still penetrate through.

I guess the temperature was -15 degree celsius, or even lower. The wind was blowing at me as if I were a slab of meat in the freezer!

Life of a Crew

2011-01-14T23:33:00.003+08:00

We work hard...and play hard.

That's the life of a crew.

In the morning you have breakfast in Seoul, then many hours later you could be having breakfast (again) in San Francisco...because of the flight time and difference in time zones.

Eat, shop and sightsee...买东西吃东西买东西吃东西。

What else can I ask for?

This is NOT written out of jealousy.

2011-01-03T02:03:00.003+08:00

I saw my secondary school crush and her boyfriend at Orchard today. They have been together for a couple of years. OMG her boyfriend is sooooo sloppy...and fat. He was wearing a shirt that is obviously too big for him, a pair of bermudas and slippers.

CMI.

EHH EXCUSE ME Uncle, this is Orchard, not NUS. It would certainly be more pleasing to the eyes of the public if you could dress more appropriately.

I saw the boyfriend, then I turned around and saw my crush's back view. Maybe she had seen me first but she turned away? I don't know. I am sure you would agree it's a chore to do small talk sometimes, especially with friends whom you have not seen for a long period of time.

Well, I just carried on with my shopping.

I always bump into this couple. This has happened a few times already.

Years went by. She is no longer my crush.

Crash maybe.

*CMI - Cannot Make It
*NUS - National University of Singapore

Let's Start the New Year on the Right Note

2011-01-02T03:02:00.001+08:00

You see, 2010 just came to an end like that. I believe it is important to start things on the right note, so we don't end up repeating the bad habits.

My focus for 2011 (for me to know and only I will understand):

- Clear
- Tune
- J
- F&
- Volu
- 525

友情的真谛

2011-01-02T02:25:00.001+08:00

许多好朋友最近都不在新加坡。不是因为年终佳节到国外旅游，而是真的不在新加坡。他们都是身在国外留学 / 交流。

首先离境的是Gerald。
再来就是Bryan和HT。
然后Jocelyn和Luke也跟风。
傍晚刚从机场回来，这次是替HK送行。
不久后Samuel和AY也会出国留学。

幸亏不是所有的好朋友都离我而去，要不然寂寞的夜里我会很孤单。

如家人，朋友也很重要。所谓：在家靠父母，出外靠朋友。好朋友不用很多，真心诚意的友谊才最可贵。

真心诚意这四个字，以前华文造句的时候大概造出一个正确的句子就很高兴。其实它真正的意思谁又有去斟酌过啊？

“真心”讲的不就是一个“真”字。与好朋友在一起的时候你不做作，因为你就是你，什么东西你喜欢你就说，若不喜欢你就驳。

而“诚意”就比较难解释。“诚意”是一个很难用言语去形容的两个字。它是一种感觉，一种让人能卸下膈膜和你触膝谈心的感觉。

好久没有用华文写作了。大多数的到访者也应该看不懂我写什么吧。2:25AM正应该是熟睡的时段我却还精神奕奕。

No Big Deal about 2011

2011-01-01T13:36:00.004+08:00

I don't see the point why people get so excited about the new year.

Life still has to go on. If you don't do anything constructive, nothing will change.

Yes, I am a cynic. But I choose to see it as being down-to-earth.

My new year resolution: USE LESS FACEBOOK.

Pun intended.

Facebook is useless. It doesn't add any value to a person. I see some friends type a new status message every few hours. Seriously, they should stop this. Who cares that you can't sleep, or that you are being held up in the traffic jam, or that you just woke up.

I DON'T CARE.

Feed me with more meaningful updates, please. Examples of good/meaningful updates would be:

"Forever 21 offering store-wide discount today!"

"XXX RIP."

"If you drink too much coffee, you are at higher risk of XXX"
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Having said that, facebook has its benefits of course. I believe I don't need to elaborate because it's self-explanatory.

1/1/11. Such a lucky date today. That's why I decided to blog.

I have been "on leave" since 25 Dec, albeit the abrupt 2-day Shanghai trip. I use quotation marks because I am not actually on leave per se.

So, in addition to the 21 days I am entitled to in 2011, I have 11 days carried forward from 2010 and that makes 32 days of leave in 2011~

This is probably one of the best jobs.

Shanghai, China (3rd Visit)

2010-12-31T13:42:00.001+08:00

I came back from Shanghai on the 23rd of December. And you know what? I had to go Shanghai again on the 27th.

This is really funny. Of so many places, Shanghai again...in the same week.

Thank goodness my luggage was kinda packed (everything from my last trip was still in it).

I didn't do much in Shanghai this time. I had an awesome hotel buffet dinner in the evening with wonderful colleagues. There was a splendid spread. The salmon sashimi is a must-eat. Oh, after discount and RMB-SGD conversion the buffet only costs about SGD$25. In my opinion, this price is quite reasonable, lah.

^One of the many sections in the restaurant. This section serves cooked food.

And since I couldn't get the pair of boots as requested by my sister the previous time, I bought it this time round. The boots didn't fit her as I had expected. I mean, this kind of thing is better to be there yourself and try it on before buying.

But she insisted so I had to do her this favour. Whatever lah. things are cheap in China. The pair of boots only costs SGD$32 after bargain.

China is a shopping paradise if you know how to bargain effectively.

Shanghai, China (2nd Visit)

2010-12-21T21:07:00.003+08:00

^The Oriental Pearl Tower 东方明珠塔

Reporting for work in about 2 hours' time. I would be heading to Shanghai. This would be my 2nd visit to Shanghai. The first time was 4 months ago with Ragini and Zanette, when I was still a trainee. Coincidentally, there would be trainees on my flight tonight too.

I have done my homework on the places of interest. I shall visit the famous 佳家汤包 first thing after I check in at hotel. Is it for breakfast or dinner? Whatever you call it. I tell you, I am officially nocturnal. I slept at 12:00PM (when the sun is at its highest point in the sky), and woke up at 7:00PM.

My mum used the Chinese term "颠倒人生" to describe my current state. She isn't nagging. She understands this is a "职业病".

If you reverse the meridiem, my body clock is actually quite decent, just that it is opposite of yours. I like it this way. I can avoid the day heat (hence there is no need to switch on the air-conditioning).

The temperature at Shanghai ranges between 6 to 15 degree celsius. Hope I would enjoy the trip. I shall blog more about it when I come back.
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(Saturday, 25 December, 2010) I came back from Shanghai 2 days ago, but I was too lazy to write till now. It's Christmas today, but I am at home. And I don't intend to go out because everywhere would be crowded. It's so comfortable staying at home. Oh, and I just heard the thunder. I guess it might rain soon.

Anyway, as promised I would talk more about my Shanghai trip. After I checked in, I took a shower and rested a while before heading to the famous 佳家汤包 as originally planned. I can't believe I really did that! I have no idea where that energy came from. Everyone else was exhausted so no one tagged along with me. Armed with a map, I figured out the way to get there all by myself. It wasn't that difficult because I can speak fluent Mandarin.

(Well, I have received many praises from the mainland Chinese for my fluent and accurate Mandarin. LOL! Thanks everybody, thanks! And special thanks to the Singapore government for the bilingualism policy.)

Apparently, this 佳家汤包 is quite well-known, so much so that all the people whom I approached knew which shop I was referring to when I asked them for directions. I was expecting it to be prominent. You know, since this eatery is so highly recommended, I was under the impression that there would be a long queue of people waiting for their turn to be seated. It turned out that I actually passed by the shop twice without realizing. It was rather inconspicous. And there was no queue at all. I entered the shop at about 9:40A.M. There were several vacant tables and chairs.

我：早上好哦！我还以为这里会有人龙呢！
店员：时段不对呀。午餐时分人可多得很！

There is a big menu board placed outside the shop and one more at the counter on the wall. You order, pay and wait for the food to be served.

Luckily, I did my homework beforehand so I didn't have to spend too much time deciding what to order. I read online that the 蟹粉鲜肉汤包 is a must-try. And of course I ordered that. It only costs RMB22.50 (= SGD4.50). I can't remember exactly how many pieces of dumplings there were in the steamer. However, I am sure there were at least 10. In other words, each piece only costs about SGD0.45!

I was surfing the net and I realized it used to be RMB19. Over the years with so much publicity and press coverage given to them, it is logical to increase the price.

So after my detailed recount, you must be wondering, is the food really that great?

I won't know about other items, since I didn't order them. But I can assure you that the 蟹粉鲜肉汤包 is really delicious. The boss also shared with me the verbal "formula" of how to eat 汤包.

It goes like this, "轻轻提、慢慢移、先开窗、后吸汤”。

^A photo that I found online. The saucer is to contain black vinegar. The yellow part is due to the crab roe.

(Fellow colleagues, if you are interested do patronize this eatery. It's good.)

After my breakfast, I went to the Shanghai museum. It was indeed a cultural enrichment. Too bad I don't appreciate history and artefacts. Well, it's free entry...

^The People's Park.

The second time to Shanghai but I still had not gone to the bund. Actually, there is nothing much at the bund right? I suppose people go there just to see the Oriental Pearl tower and to take photos. Just a tower lor, what's the big deal?

報考空服員

2010-12-21T02:30:00.001+08:00

The Glee Fever~

2010-12-20T07:13:00.002+08:00

Great harmonizing by the boys. Watching these music videos makes me wanna study in the States.

Luggage Sales & Repair Centre

2010-12-20T06:58:00.001+08:00

DnF Marketing & Services
26 Siglap Drive
Singapore 456153

Tel: 6448 5083 / 6444 9375
Fax: 6243 4279
Email address: dnfsvks@singnet.com.sg
Blog address: http://www.dnfmarketing.blogspot.com/

This is the authorised shop. When I say "authorised", I hope you know what I mean.

I had gone down to this shop before. Besides repair services, this shop also carries a selection of cabin bags and cargo bags for sales. Apparently, air crew gets discount but I am not sure if they are any cheaper than the market price after discount.

Mustafa Centre has an even wider selection of cabin bags and cargo bags. I assure you that the things are cheaper than the standard market price. I have done my market research.

I tell you, I've been there done that.

Zzz Zzz

2010-12-20T04:03:00.001+08:00

I don't know what time zone I am living in. I just sleep when I am tired.

And I just woke up from a nap. The time is 4:00 AM now.

In 2 hours' time, I shall go for a morning swim at Bedok Swimming Complex.

I have not swum for a long time...at a public pool. It's the school holidays. Hope the children won't crowd the pool. I don't think they will. You tell me who goes to the pool so early in the morning!

Updates

2010-12-19T03:00:00.003+08:00

What started out as an activity to kill time has become one of the ways I vent my emotions or share my thoughts. Blogging, that is. I guess most visitors are my friends; some are the close ones. I know that my elder brother reads my blog regularly =)

Well, it’s almost 3:00 AM in the morning now, and I am wide awake. I went to bed after dinner, and just woke up not long ago to have “supper”. Yeah, I know it’s unhealthy to eat at these unearthly hours. But it is like morning to me now, except that the Sun hasn’t risen yet. Day and night means nothing to me now. Sometimes, I work throughout the night. And that means I have to sleep in the day. The day of the week also means nothing to me, because I could be working on a Sunday too. As much as I may sound like I am complaining, I am not. To be honest, I am very happy so far.

Since the time when I was young, I have always wanted to work, instead of being a student. The thought of being financially independent is exciting. It’s like a money game. The control is all in your hands. But of course that means having to exercise a lot of discipline and awareness when it comes to spending. I shall not go into that area today.

I have seen and realized many things in these 3 months. I learn more about myself, that’s for sure. There is a Chinese saying that goes, “初生牛犊不怕虎”. Literally, it means that the new-born calf is not fearful of the tiger. Reason being, the calf have never seen a tiger before so it won’t know what harm the tiger is capable of doing. I was like a calf before, young and naive. As I speak with people, I have picked up many pointers to help me in navigating life.

And I also discovered the importance of humility. As compared to the vastness of this world, we are just a puny living being. There is so much we do not know. And we may not even know what we do not know. Who knows, extra-terrestrial aliens could have been spying on us for a long time, waiting for that one day of conquest. A documentary on discovery channel stated that if aliens were to exist, they are likely to be super-intelligent, more so than humans. You see, till now human beings are not able to survive in the long term on other planets. If aliens are capable of that, they must be technologically competent. And in order to implement that kind of technology, the aliens must be very smart. Ooops, I have gone out of point.

I don’t actually fancy travelling. I find that most cities are similar. Clothing brands like Zara, Forever 21 etc can be found across the globe. So what is the big deal? It’s cheaper at some places…and maybe there is a wider variety. That’s all the differences, I tell you.

By the way, I have finally seen snow for the first time in my life. That was indeed a fascinating sight! Apparently, there are different types of snow. The one I saw was pretty much like rain drops but it is white and granular. Unfortunately, I didn’t have my camera with me so I could not take photos. But I am sure I will see snow again soon.

I realize my health is going down a bit. It's time to do something, before something hits me.

I shall start with eating fruits and vegetables on a more regular basis.

Will you stay long?

2010-12-16T20:45:00.002+08:00

This is a question I've been asking myself.

To be honest, I am still not sure.

It has only been 3 months.

I haven't seen enough.

Maybe I might.

Maybe not.

Well.

I have not worn a Casio for a long time!

2010-12-16T05:42:00.009+08:00

A: Are you wearing a Casio?
B: Yes.
A: Wow! (astounded)...I have not worn a Casio for a long time.

I overheard this conversation between 2 men. I then turned to look at my own watch. It is a Casio too.

It's easy to lose sight of yourself when you are in this line.

Bottega Veneta, Prada, Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Chanel, Salvatore Ferragamo, Givenchy, Fendi, Dior, Versace, ToyWatch, Patek Philippe, Rolex...

^Bottega Veneta sneakers for men

There are times when I would also be tempted to get an item or two. They are so much cheaper in Europe.

But seriously, what is the point?

I can resist the temptation. The thought of possessing these branded goods doesn't give me any sense of happiness. Money can be put to better use elsewhere, like investment and education. I am glad I am not materialistic.

celestinechua.com defines a materialistic person as someone who has a preoccupation with the owning of material possessions, especially luxury goods and wealth, and equates them to happiness and fulfillment. The writer also added that, "This is especially so when the owning of the possessions is motivated by emotional reasons (such as to look better, feel better) rather than functional reasons (such as a watch is to tell time, a phone is to establish communication.)"

Marketers are smart. They develop understanding of the (intangible) issues people face in life, which can be low self-esteem, loneliness, dissatisfaction etc. From there, they create an imagery that will be aspired – promising love, happiness, acceptance, worthiness, etc. They then design marketing strategies which link their products with this aspired image.

Materialism breeds discontentment. It is a sticky situation to be in, because you are always gratified with the false sense of joy whenever you get something new, especially so if your reason for acquiring it was more for emotional than functional reasons. This joy of owning a new item is transient. It reinforces your desire to buy more. So in fact material possession is just an artificial symbol of happiness.

Materialism prevents you from addressing issues in your life which will lead to real happiness. Think about this: If you are buying something to make you feel more confident, it means that deep down, you don’t feel as confident as you would without it. If you are buying something to make you feel more attractive, it means you don’t feel as attractive without it. Those physical goods only act as a temporary, artificial placeholder to cover up your gaps.

Break out of materialism today before it breaks you!

Courtesy of http://celestinechua.com/blog/materialism-breeds-unhappiness/

And back to me. I am happy wearing my Casio watch because it has many useful features such as dual-clock and all the world times!

Quote of the Day

2010-12-15T22:47:00.002+08:00

There are bound to be unsavoury remarks. You must have the passion to help you ignore all the scornful remarks.

Milan, Italy (1st Visit)

2010-12-14T20:15:00.005+08:00

It's so cold. It's not even snowing yet. My lips feels numb in the cold and I can't utter my words clearly.

Still...I am loving the weather!

I am in the hotel room now. Had a cup of Italian coffee just now. It tastes good! But the serving size it's SO SMALL. Just 2 spoonful. It's a shot, like espresso.

Just came back from Milan Cathedral (Italian: Duomo di Milano). This Gothic cathedral took five centuries to complete. It is the largest Gothic cathedral and the second largest Catholic cathedral in the world.

Duomo is a generic term in Italian meaning "Cathedral", which technically refers to a church which is the official seat of an archbishop. It is derived from domus, a Latin term for "home" or "house", referring to the role of the church as home of God.

I attempted to find out more about the history of this cathedral...but I tell you, history is soooo boring.

English-Chinese Translation: Laundry

2010-12-11T01:01:00.000+08:00

Laundry 湿洗
Dry cleaning 干洗
Wash with Starch 浆洗
Shirt 衬衫
Blouse 女式衬衫
T-shirt T恤
Pants 长裤
Jeans 牛仔裤
Shorts 短裤
Jacket 上装
Winter Coat 羽绒服
Dress 衫裙
Skirt 裙子
Pyjamas 睡衣
Night Gown 睡裙
Stockings 长袜
Handkerchief 手绢
Suit 西装
Overcoat 大衣
Windbreaker 风衣
Trousers 西裤
Sweater 毛衣
Singlet 背心
Tuxedo 晚礼服
Scarf 围巾
Shrinkage after washing 缩水
Stain 渍(zi1)迹 / 污渍
Colour Fade 褪色(shai3)
Sweat Stain 汗渍

Quote of the Day

2010-12-11T00:24:00.002+08:00

Treat people the way you want to be treated.

Blacklist - Money Changer at Bedok North

2010-12-03T18:44:00.002+08:00

This particular shop is located NEAR Bedok North bus interchange. It is not nice if I specify the name of the shop.

Anyway, there are 2 reasons why I decided to blacklist this money changer. Firstly, the exchange rate is lousy. Secondly, the money changer does not publish the rates for customers to see. Many reputable money changers would state their buy-and-sell rates on a TV screen. It seems like this uncle simply quotes rates as and how he likes. I dislike patronizing shops that are not transparent in their pricing. Worse still, he doesn't allow bargaining.

I said:          "Uncle, I would like to buy Arab Emirates Dirhams. What is the rate?"

Uncle said:   "1 Singapore dollar to 2.7 dirhams."

(For your information, the market exchange rate on that day was 1 Singapore Dollars to 2.833 dirhams)

I said:          "What!? Is that your best price?"

(I was utterly shocked that the exchange rate is so lousy).

Uncle said:   "Best price. Please, no bargain."

I said:          "Uncle, I live nearby and I always need to change money. If you quote me a better rate, I would visit you again."

Uncle said:   "I quote very good rate to everyone."

YEAH RIGHT, uncle. GOOD RATE for yourself, maybe!

I was not pleased with the rate, but I had to rush for a flight so I still bought dirhams from him in the end. I know the rate is lousy because I found out from a girl friend who changed money at Mustafa Centre on the same day at the rate of 2.788.

I would not patronize this money changer again unless I really have no other choice. The only value I can think of for patronizing him is the convenience. Otherwise, I would rather change money at Mustafa Centre, which offers better rates. I am not the only one who says this. Many frequent travellers would agree with me that Mustafa Centre offers satisfactory exchange rates. Their rates are specific to 3 or 4 decimal places.

I am not being stingy here. When a transaction that involves hundreds of dollars is concerned, these decimal places are significant and can result in a considerable loss of money.

The Camel Spirit

2010-11-30T08:56:00.002+08:00

Camels are hardworking animals. Even though they might be tired, they still work. That's the camel spirit! Fuck mankind for exploiting animals.

The Camel Spirit, not "spirit" as in the spiritual apparition but "spirit" as in mental energy.

We have the living camel...

as well as the non-living camel.

And the side profile!

This random post is dedicated to Chloe Ng in an attempt to make her smile!

Cairo, Egypt (1st Visit)

2010-11-27T19:12:00.002+08:00

^Photo taken from the balcony of the hotel room. City line of Cairo.

^That river you see is not just any other river. It's the Nile River!

^Pyramid, camels, horses, sand, rocks...and smiles on our faces.

^Personally, I like this photo a lot because it captured the 3 elements unique to Egypt -

Pyramid, Sphinx, Camel

Dubai, United Arab Emirates (1st Visit)

2010-11-27T18:49:00.002+08:00

臺灣可愛正妹

2010-11-19T14:34:00.000+08:00

聲音可愛，眼睛深邃，我超喜欢她。

When you use the lavatory on an airplane, where does the waste go?

2010-11-13T20:51:00.001+08:00

The typical home toilet uses a bowl filled with water. When you flush the toilet, it starts a siphon that drains the bowl. Gravity then carries the water into the septic tank or the sewer system.

The problem with this approach on an airplane (or a train, bus, boat, etc.) is that the motion of the vehicle means you cannot use a bowl filled with water because it would splash out every time turbulence came along. Since there is no bowl of water, you cannot use a siphon or gravity to empty the bowl and waste.

Airplane toilets use an active vacuum instead of a passive siphon, therefore they are called vacuum toilets. When you flush, it opens a valve in the sewer line, and the vacuum in the line sucks the contents out of the bowl and into a tank. Because the vacuum does all the work, it takes very little water (or the blue sanitizing liquid used in airplanes) to clean the bowl for the next person. Most vacuum systems flush with just half a gallon (2 liters) of fluid or less which is alot less than what is used in a standard house hold toilet.

After that, the waste is put into a holding tank located below the lavatories. The tank contains a blue sanitizing liquid, which also keeps the smell down. The container is very very thick, which also stops the smell from spreading throughout the aircraft.

Once the aircraft arrives at it's destination the tank is emptied, and cleaned out. It is then refilled with fresh sanitizing liquid for the next flight. When your waiting in the departure lounge and watching all those trucks service your plane, one of them is cleaning out the holding tank that had all the waste from the previous passengers on the last flight with that aircraft.

What is Singlish?

2010-11-13T00:05:00.002+08:00

If you actually understand the above conversation, you are a true blue Singaporean.

English Tea Time

2010-11-12T22:26:00.002+08:00

When you think of tea time, England seems a natural starting point. While tea originated in China, the English passion for tea helped spread this beverage around the world. Find out what the English favor in their teacup.

It is very safe to say that the most popular and most utilized tea in England is Black tea. Fully oxidized black tea has a black to reddish color. And while the color remains the same, various aromatics and harvesting processes make for a wide variety of black teas from which to choose.

At one time, the only large meals served in England were breakfast and dinner. In an agrarian community, dinner came late in the evening, right before bed. An afternoon snack became popular complete with finger food and tea service around four or five as a way of staving off hunger. At breakfast, people enjoyed a breakfast tea. Breakfast teas were designed to be more fragrant and sometimes more potent. They got the heart pumping in the morning because they contained huge amounts of caffeine. These teas had the fragrance of a regular breakfast component. They smelled like toast and butter or honey.

There are several breakfast teas served in England. Earl Grey tea is a popular type that has a citrus flavor with the addition of bergamot mixed with Ceylon and Assam tea. It has a very strong flavor while Lady Grey tea contains with the same ingredients but has a much milder taste. The origin of English Breakfast Tea is Scotland and it contains a blend of black teas including Keemum that combines well with milk. Irish breakfast tea is very strong and generally served with a great deal of sugar and milk.

Afternoon and evening tea might be an Oolong or Darjeeling tea. Partially oxidized oolong comes from China or Taiwan. Plain oolong is the best since sugar and milk hides the real flavor of the tea. Formosa oolong is a favorite from Taiwan that uses a higher grade of Chinese tea making it a little more mellow and smooth. Darjeeling tea comes from current Sri Lanka, once a part of India. It is a type of Ceylon tea with full flavor resembling a muscatel. Darjeeling pares nicely with lemon but never with milk. Ceylon tea comes from the highlands of India. It has a sweet overtone and fruity taste of citrus.

The English also enjoy herbal teas, which do not come from the tea plant at all. Often times a bit of loose black or green tea is added to an herbal tea recipe. Favorite herb teas include lavender, peppermint, rose hip, Echinacea, chamomile and jasmine.

The English have a wide range of popular tea. Even green and white teas are becoming fashionable, especially by the youth of England.

By Steve Green
Published: 11/4/2010
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/english-tea-time.html

Earl Grey Tea 伯爵茶
Ceylon Tea 锡兰茶
English Breakfast Tea 英式早餐茶
Jasmine Tea 茉莉花茶
Chamomile Tea 甘菊茶

Hong Kong!

2010-11-11T13:43:00.003+08:00

Very clear resolution and catchy song in the background. I am sure you will like it too.

Little Big City - Hong Kong Tilt Shift from Fershad Irani on Vimeo.

Artist: Phoenix
Album: It's Never Been Like That
Song Title: Long Distance Call

Where to go I had no idea
26.10 was the price to pay
A messed up kid with no ideals at all
I thought those 26.10 I shouldn't give'em away

I remember this young guy died and I took his part
He got far too many stitches on his pretty face
Long time to see but I always thought us two would be serious
I was looking around town, thinking the same as you

I'm far gone but your long distance call
And your capital letters keep me asking for more

It's never been like that...

I'm far gone but your long distance call
And your capital letters keep me asking for more

Where to go I had no idea about it
Most of the people do, there're only doing just fine
I don't wanna stay in place no more, see
Ain't doing well well well, I am only doing just fine

Long time no see, long time no say
Got little to tell, I don't say much but I might
Something always told me us two would be serious
I am looking around town, thinking the same as you

I'm far gone but your long distance call
And your capital letters keep me asking for more

It's never been like that...

I'm far gone but your long distance call
And your capital letters keep me asking for more

Beijing, China (1st Visit)

2010-11-11T01:28:00.003+08:00

Jocelyn brought me to a few places in Beijing. I really appreciate her time and company.

一种发泄的方式

2010-11-10T21:41:00.003+08:00

最近的心情有一点儿差。也不知道是为什么，也不想在这里多说。有些事情自己知道就好。

纳闷。烦躁。难过。好多思绪在脑中像绳子解不开来。

你相信心情有传染力吗？我有一个朋友最近的心情也不是很好，可能是在交谈中互相被感染到吧？

刚从北京回来。真的是one night in 北京，因为就只呆了24小时。

我昨天听说有一位同训练班的朋友已经辞职了。也太快了吧？都还没过两个月就辞职。

你有注意最近的新闻头条吗？首先是台湾艺人Selina被火严重烧伤，再来就是澳大利亚昆达士航空公司的两架客机在空中突然引擎爆炸燃烧。

生活很无常，随时都可能会发生意想不到的事情，晴天霹雳，会让人一时之间难以接受。

我明天应该回去四马路观音庙拜拜求平安。我不怕死，我怕的是身边的人如爸妈在精神上会无法接受我的离去。

去的地方多，接触到的事物也随着扩大，但我始终还是看不开一些事情。

也许随着岁月的增加我会逐渐领悟到生活的真谛，看开一些。

我惟有希望。

How to Use Chopsticks

2010-11-09T18:48:00.003+08:00

This video clip is very entertaining...the part about advanced stage of using chopsticks.

Night Out with Brion and Friends

2010-11-06T02:18:00.002+08:00

We had a karaoke session, before heading to Mac Donalds (Lido) for supper. I was too full to eat anything though. Ended our night with a fucked-up cab driver driving us home. I have so much to say about cab drivers, but I shan't talk about them today.

Dôme Café @ Parkway Parade

2010-11-04T00:05:00.004+08:00

Date of Visit:
03 Nov 2010

Day of Visit:
Wednesday

Time of Visit:
1:00PM to 5:00PM

Item(s) Ordered:
Long Macchiato
Breaded Calamari Rings
Chocolate Lava with Gelato

Quality of Food and Beverage:
7.0 / 10

Staff Service:
6.0 / 10 (The staff were generally polite and prompt but not smiley enough)

Crowd:
Crowded even though it's a weekday afternoon when people should be working.

Noise Level:
~~Quiet / Low~~ / Moderate / ~~Noisy~~

Background Music:
Yes

Lighting:
Warm white and comforting

Overall Verdict:
For the food, yeahhh it's worth a try. Would also be a good place to chill out with friends.

Address:
80 Marine Parade Road
#B1-156/157/158 Parkway Parade
Singapore 449269
Tel : 6348 8498 / Fax : 6348 8201
8.30am to 10pm (Daily)

Website:
http://www.dome.sg/

The Musselguys Seafood & Steak Restaurant @ Vivocity

2010-11-03T20:24:00.003+08:00

Date of Visit:
02 Nov 2010

Day of Visit:
Tuesday

Time of Visit:
7:30PM to 9:00PM

Item(s) Ordered:
Creamy Pumpkin Soup
Grilled Sirloin Steak (medium)
Iced Lemon Tea

Quality of Food and Beverage:
4.5 / 10

Staff Service:
6.0 / 10

Crowd:
The restaurant was not very crowded, probably because it was a weekday evening.

Noise Level:
~~Quiet~~ / Low / ~~Moderate / Noisy~~

Background Music:
No

Lighting:
Cool white

Overall Verdict:
The pumpkin soup is mediocre. It was served together with a tiny piece of crispy (or should I say hard?) garlic bread. In my opinion, the steak is salty and slightly stiff for medium-done. To be honest, I was quite disappointed with the steak. It seems like there is no sincerity put in in the making of the dish. I asked for decaffeinated coffee at the start but I was told it is not available. Most established restaurants would have decaff coffee, however not this one. In the end I just settled for the iced lemon tea, which tasted just like any canned lemon tea. This restaurant is called the "Musselguys" so I would think that the mussels should be better. I MIGHT patronize this shop again to give the mussels a try. How bad can mussels taste anyway.

Address:
1 Harbourfront Walk
02 - 123 VivoCity
Singapore 098585
Tel : (+65) 68201800
Fax : (+65) 68201805

Website:
http://www.musselguys.com.sg/specialities.htm (the website is not impressive)

I am in love...

2010-11-03T14:03:00.003+08:00

with my present lifestyle <3

Because it's so carefree.

After I finish work, all the time is mine. I can relax and do anything I want. There is no need to worry about meetings, projects or deadlines. It's 2:00 PM in the afternoon in Singapore. Most people would be working in the office, but here I am at Parkway Parade chilling at DOME cafe, having my breaded calamari accompanied by a mug of long Macchiato.

In the past, I never knew what life is.

Now I do.

My definition of life is as simple as meeting the basic physiological needs according to the Maslow's Hierachy of Needs. Of course my definition also includes the self-actualization aspect but I shall not talk about that in this writing.

Arthur and Louis, I am aware you read my blog. When you are free, let's hang out together more often. I believe both of you should know what life is more than me.

Christchurch, New Zealand (1st Visit)

2010-11-02T05:13:00.006+08:00

First of all, please allow me to vent my unhappiness, which has affected me the whole day even during flight. Initially, I am so glad that I bought 2 items that were manufactured in New Zealand. One of them was the Manuka Honey with UMF +5 (that costs about $19*) and the other one was the goat cheese (that costs about $10*). Both items never made their way to Singapore, sadly.

*New Zealand Dollars and Singapore Dollars have almost equivalent value.

The lesson I learnt is, before you check out of the hotel, give yourself ample time to scan through the entire room (including the refrigerator), as well as your cabin carry-on luggage (and see what should be in there and what should not be). I realized I didn't take the goat cheese from the refrigerator only when I was on my way to the airport. Ok, at that point I told myself...it's fine. Just forget about it. Only $10. Then when I was at the airport screening point, the customs officer requested to check my luggage. Together with the officer we opened the luggage, he pulled out the manuka honey from the PakNSave plastic carrier, and suddenly it dawned on me that the bottle of Honey should have been checked-in instead.

"Oh, it's the manuka honey. I am sorry, please dispose it into the bin over there."

That's it.

As instructed, I did the disposal. The bin was big and empty. The point of impact when the unopened bottle of honey hit the base produced a loud thud. The thud pierced right through my heart. Am I the first person of the day to dispose LAG (Liquid, Aerosol, Gases) into the empty bin? Or maybe, I should say that all other travellers are seasoned enough not to place any LAG in their carry-on luggage.

What makes me even unhappier is the thought that I actually chose the honey that looks the most superior in quality (so is the price). $19 for a small bottle of honey. Besides eating the honey as it is, it could also be used as a sweetener. I am a coffee-drinker. I am sure the coffee I make will smell and taste even more aromatic with the honey. Sigh. I am sure I can get manuka honey in Singapore too, but you know...it's just different. One thing for sure, it is more expensive in Singapore.

However, I still pretty much enjoyed my stay at Christchurch. I did a few things. I climbed up to the summit of the Port Hills, almost. I toured around the city centre. I hit the hotel gym. I went for spa and sauna. I shopped at the local supermarket PakNSave, OHHHH and that's where I bought the honey and goat cheese.

So far, this is the coldest city I have been to since 1 month of flying. The wind is strong, especially when I was near the summit of the Port Hills. The cold wind kept blowing, my hand became numb. Luckily my winter jacket is thick enough to shield me from the ruthless weather. I used the word "ruthless" because it even froze a lamb to death. I saw the lamb carcass on my way down the summit. Surprisingly, there was no foul smell. Shouldn't be a case of an attack by predator. The whole body is well-preserved and intact. I took a closer look...the eyeballs are no longer there. They must have shrunken to the point of non-existence.

Here are some photos I took using my 2 mega-pixel camera phone.

^Evidence of my summit conquer.

My smile looks stiff because my face was literally frozen.

^The Sugarloaf Tower marks the summit of the Port Hills.

I almost reached the tower. Apparently it is out of bounds.

^The lamb carcass I was talking about. Well-preserved by the cold temperature.

^The Avon River meanders through the entire Christchurch city.

Complaint Letter

2010-10-28T02:24:00.011+08:00

And this is the reply from the Customer Service officer on 27 Oct 2010 Wednesday evening:

Dear Dannie,

Many thanks for providing us with some feedback of your dining experience at our Wheelock Place outlet, and for sparing me some time to discuss over the phone just now.

I fully agree that the accumulation of issues you highlighted would have been more than enough to prevent you from enjoying your first visit to Cedele. As I explained, some of the issues are not within my control, but those that are I will be addressing with all our outlets with a view to improving our service standards.

We would welcome the opportunity to serve you again at one of our outlets, with a view to redeeming ourselves, and providing you with much improved dining experience. Once you feel you feel you may be ready to visit us again, please don’t hesitate to contact me directly and I will make some arrangements for you.

Once again, thank you for your valuable feedback.

Best regards,
XXX

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On 24 Oct 2010 Sunday morning, I wrote:

I visited Cedele (Wheelock Place) on 23 Oct 2010 Saturday at about 7:00 PM, together with 3 other friends. That was the 1st time I patronized Cedele.

I am very disappointed with the whole dining experience. I have several issues that I am not pleased with.

My friends and I were seated beside the windows near the self-service bread counter. It seemed like the air-conditioner was not working. It felt warm. This is the 1st issue.

The waitress came to take our orders. I requested for the Beef Stew soup but to my disappointment, I was told it was not available anymore. To quote what the waitress said, "No more." It was only 7:00 PM (dinner time) and the Beef stew soup has run out of availability. This is my 2nd issue.

I had to take another look at the menu to consider other soup choices. While I was considering, I observed that the waitress was looking away as if there are more things awaiting her to complete. It gives me the perception that I am delaying her. Shouldn't good customer service encompass perception management? This is the 3rd issue.

Feeling pressured to make a decision quickly, I decided on one of the soup choices available. While waiting for the soup to be served, I went to the bread counter but to my disappointment again, there were only a few pieces of bread leftover. It is not very pleasant to see that you are getting what is left over. This is the 4th issue.

I asked the staff around me if they intended to replenish the bread. The waitress (who took our orders) said that they would replenish the bread. I waited for some time, and I realized the bread was not replenished yet. I went up (near the bread counter) to a waiter and reminded if they intend to replenish the bread any time soon. He said yes. Finally, the bread was replenished, but I was told that there was no more white bread. He apologized casually (not using proper service language), and replenished this bread (that is black in colour). I am not sure what bread that is, but it certainly doesn't complement my soup...and butter. This is the 5th issue.

I politely asked the waiter if there was any white bread, but he said no. What angers me the most is that after I completed my soup and main course, I saw that wholemeal bread was replenished at the counter. It's disappointing enough not having soft white breadroll to accompany my soup. Now your staff claimed that there is no more white bread, and suddenly wholemeal bread appeared at the bread counter after I have finished my soup and main course. Why was I not offered that choice in the first place when the white bread runs out? This is the 6th issue.

My main course was served by a waiter. He held it in front of me, expecting me to take it over and place it on the table myself. Realizing that was his intention, I took the plate over and placed it on the table myself.

Finally, after much disappointment, we asked for the bill. Your staff reacted quickly and came back almost immediately with the bill.

I am very disappointed with the whole dining experience. It seems to me that the restaurant is under-staff. Service charge was paid for sub-standard service.

"Beef stew no more, white bread no more..."

Your website claims that:
"WE’D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU!
Tell us how you feel about us – our food, our people and all.
We want to make them all better, just for you."

I look forward to a reply as soon as possible. Thank you.

How to Read Currency Exchange Rates

2010-10-27T20:00:00.000+08:00

Courtesy of http://www.customhouse.com/news-and-resources/knowledge-center/foreign-exchange-101/how-to-read-currency-exchange-rates/

The value of a currency is determined by its comparison to another currency. The first currency of a currency pair is called the "base currency", and the second currency is called the "terms currency" (or “quote currency”). The currency pair indicates how much of the terms currency is needed to purchase one unit of the base currency.

FX market convention is such that most currencies, including the Canadian Dollar, are quoted directly against the US Dollar. A “direct quote” always indicates the amount of foreign currency to buy or sell one US Dollar. Other common direct currencies include USDJPY (Japanese yen), USDCHF (Swiss franc), and USDMXN (Mexican Peso). Currencies quoted indirectly include GBPUSD (British Pound), EURUSD (Euro), AUDUSD (Australian Dollar), and NZDUSD (New Zealand Dollar). There is no particular reason why a currency is quoted directly or indirectly, it is a standard market convention that has evolved over time.

If you want to see the rate in terms of Canadian Dollars (the CAD rate) as opposed to US Dollars (the USD indicative rate) you must find the indirect rate. Indirect rates are shown with the USD listed second. For example, CAD rates are indirect rates and are formatted as CADUSD, i.e. the value of one Canadian Dollar in USD terms. USD rates are direct quotes and are formatted as USDCAD.

Example:

A US company needs to pay 50,000 Euros to their supplier in Europe today.

The quoted rate for EURUSD is 1.5699

This means that it will cost (not including margins) 1.5699 US Dollars for each Euro that they need to purchase today.

50,000 x 1.5699 = 78,495

So 50,000 Euros will cost the company $78,495 US Dollars today.

Another useful website:
http://economics.about.com/cs/money/a/exchange_base.htm

A forum about withdrawing money overseas:
http://www.sgtravelcafe.com/index.php?topic=1165.0

感想

2010-10-23T15:21:00.001+08:00

这个世界真的很大。有些外国人甚至没听多新加坡这个国家，这没有什么好大惊小怪的。新加坡就只是小小的一个弹丸小国。有些新加坡人抱着优越的态度看世界，总以为新加坡高高在上，首屈一指。其实新加坡在很多先天方面都落在别国远远，就比如自然景色，天然资源等。但虽如此，我还是忠于新加坡，因为这里始终是我的出生地。我的家人都在这里。到了别国旅游，不管再多愉快，始终多多少少还是会想到家人。

最近到了南非的约翰纳斯堡，收获不少。最让我感触良多的是Jared, 那个野生动物园的导览。他对野生动物很感兴趣，我从他和大象说话的语气中听得出他对动物的真爱。

从与Jared交流的过程中，我领悟到活着应该做自己爱做的事。他可以选择到大城市工作，但他却选择把青春留给大自然的野生动物。他修读的科系是野生动物管理 (game management)。我也曾经在新加坡国立大学念过生物系，对生物尤其是动物很感兴趣。只可惜在新加坡念这科好像没有什么出路。这是我一直以来心存的顾虑。

也许先天环境不适宜，后天更该试着去扭转局势，而不是盲目让大环境改变自己的人生方向。

我好像找到了我的人生方向。

这个行业能让我看见并且领悟到很多东西。虽然大学没念完，但是我没有遗憾。给我一些时间，我半工半读总有一天会考到大学文凭的。

Empire State of Mind (by Jay-Z & Alicia Keys)

2010-10-18T18:46:00.002+08:00

Johannesburg, South Africa (1st Visit) - Continue...

2010-10-15T21:59:00.004+08:00

We headed to Eastgate Mall. Nothing special there. I saw a leather jacket that costs about 600 Rand, equivalent of SGD120. The design is nice and the price is quite reasonable. However, I resisted the temptation and did not purchase it because I already have a winter jacket in my wardrobe. I have been spending so much money in Johannesburg, mainly on food. We went to Ocean Basket last night and we had seafood. For appetizers I had oysters. As for the main course, I had curry prawns with yellow rice. (I had a craving for curry. Haha.) My colleagues had seafood platter. Maybe I should have ordered the seafood platter too. There was an awesome spread of seafood on their pans unlike mine, only prawns. Anyway, the whole business concept of Fish and Co. (in Singapore) originated from Ocean Basket in South Africa.

Brion, Eunice and Elaine are at the gym now. I didn't bring my running shoes so I could not join them. But I might be joining them for swimming/sun-tanning later though. Sigh...I am tired now. It's 4:00PM in the afternoon in Johannesburg. I shall go take an afternoon nap now, before the seafood buffet dinner this evening.

Shall update in details again.
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(Continuing from above...On 18 Oct 2010 (GMT +8) 2:30 PM

I arrived back into Singapore in the morning and slept till 4:00 PM. I am starting to miss the time back in Johannesburg.

Friendly colleagues, beautiful place, awesome experience, palatable food...what else can I ask for? A picture speaks a thousand words. Enjoy the photos below.

^That is the hotel where we stay at. It doesn't look as nice in reality. Photos can really be deceiving, huh!

^Attempted to bask in the sun. Too bad it was a cloudy afternoon.

^Cool breeze + Sunshine = AWESOME

^Looking at this photo, you have to believe me. I was really in South Africa.

^The more I interacted with Marty, the more I love her. Marty is a playful calf. She is 2 year-old.

^Three, the mother elephant. I went up THAT close to her.

^Like humans, elephants also defaecate and urinate.

^The African sun. My skin is a little sun-burnt now.

^有山有水，多美丽啊！Very good fengshui.

^Can you see what is that? It smells really bad. The wind was blowing in our direction. Damn.

^It kept eyeing Eunice, and even charged towards her when Eunice's attention was divided. The way it looked at Eunice with intense craving to devour her...I won't forget.

^Jared (safari ranger) attempting to open the cub's mouth to show us her razor-sharp teeth.

^Ostrich (left) and Warthog (right). Warthog gets its name from the wart-like protusions on the face.

On the extreme left, that's the shuttle transport driver Tommy who brought us from the hotel to the safari. In the middle that's Jared, the safari ranger.

Quick Link Shuttle Service (Email: quicklinksa@yahoo.com)

ZAR 1000 return trip (the van can carry up to about 12 people. Cost is shared.)

Glenafric Safari (Website: http://www.glenafric.co.za/)

Elephant Walk: ZAR 350

Game Drive: ZAR 250

Johannesburg, South Africa (1st Visit)

2010-10-13T23:30:00.003+08:00

On 13 Oct 2010 (GMT +2) 5:30 PM / (GMT +8) 11:30 PM, I wrote:

I am currently in Johannesburg, South Africa. The timezone is GMT +2. I will update details again.

Going for dinner with my colleagues now. Haven't decided where to have dinner. Hopefully I can get to taste game meat!

Will be back later!

^This is where I am currently staying at - Emperors Palace Hotel. Looks awesome, doesn't it!

^In-house casino. I went to observe at the black-jack counter last night.

Hmmm, should I try? Beginner's luck, Brion said. LOL.

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(Continuing from above...On 14 Oct 2010 (GMT +2) 8:30 AM / (GMT +8) 2:30 PM)

I managed to find some photos of what's happening around me. It feels good to know that I am being paid to have fun overseas. Work hard and play hard. That's what some people tell me. I used to be an uptight person and would view things very seriously. However after joining this line, it dawned on me that life is short and unpredictable, so as much as it is important to prepare for rainy days, it is just as important to activate our senses and enjoy the surroundings. This world is very beautiful. Beautiful people of different races, beautiful landscape, beautiful things happen around us every day! But some people get so caught up with what's working against them and they choose to dwell on the negative sides of things. All of us have a choice to make decision and live our lives.

I just had breakfast and I am in my hotel room now by my bed writing this post. At the same time, I am listening to some MP3 music that is playing softly from the portable speaker that I brought along with. Slow and soothing music draws emotion from people, and maybe that's why I decide to pen down my present state of mind.

Anyway, my colleagues and I had dinner at Tribes restaurant last night. It is situated within the Emperor Palace premise.

^That's where all the in-house restaurants are located. Resembles the Venetian in Las Vegas, doesn't it?

http://www.tribesafrica.co.za/

Brion and I ordered Snails (escargot) and Calamari tubes for appetizers. That was my first time eating escargots. I did not hesitate about trying even though subconsciously I thought of the slimy land snails that we often see in Singapore.

The taste of the snail meat itself is not bad. They were flavoured with cheese and cream and I must say that they complement one another rather well. Maybe that's because I am a cheese-lover.

The rest had wine to accompany their meal. I am not a wine-drinker, so I ordered the local Castle beer. Just like me, Yusoff also ordered beer. For the main course, I had game* platter which is a selection of 4 game meats. Curious what are they? Scroll down...

*Game = Wild animals (in other words, animals that live in the wild. If you have a thing for game meat, you can find them easily in African restaurants)

^Ostrich

^Impala

^Warthog

^Kudu

Please don't say that I am evil for eating those creatures above. Like I always say, when you are in Rome, do what the Romans do. I don't think I will ever get to try these meats in Singapore. I am a hardcore carnivous (ok, maybe semi-omnivous because I do eat vegetables and fruits also but not very often.) In Singapore, I always have the same usual types of meats - chicken, chicken, duck, chicken, pork, chicken, pork, pork, beef. Finally, I get to try something different.

I enjoyed the game platter. The warthog fillet could be a little more tender though. Otherwise, everything is good. I love the kudu meat the most because it is very tender and juicy. A while after I finished the kudu meat, Brion pulled out a thick lump of fats from his kudu fillet and only then I realize why it is the juiciest and most tender of all. Even so, I still love it~

Alright, I am going to take a shower and prepare to go out now. Colleagues and I will be heading to one of South African biggest shopping mall in town - Eastgate Mall.

Will be back later in the afternoon.

English-Chinese Translation: Aircraft Seat Structure

2010-10-05T13:33:00.003+08:00

词语
Tray table 餐桌板
Cup holder 杯架
Footrest 脚踏板
Window shade 遮阳板
Seat back 椅背
Control unit 遥控器
Seat belt 安全带
Call button 呼叫按纽

例：先生/女士，不好意思。飞机即将起飞/降落。我得麻烦您：

把。。。餐桌板扣上。
把。。。杯架扣上。
把。。。脚踏板拉起來。
把。。。遮阳板打开。
把。。。椅背竖（shu4）直。
把。。。遥控器放回原位。
系（ji4）好安全带，调节好松紧度。

例：如果您有任何需要，可以按呼叫按纽。

為什麼要在起飛和降落的時候把遮陽板打開？
這主要是因為飛機在起飛降落的時候是比較危險的時候，所以打開遮陽板可以有助於乘客瞭解目前的所在位置。如果有發生狀況的時候，可以儘速的逃生。另外在晚上的時候，在飛機準備起飞或降落在機場的時候也會把客艙內燈光調暗。這也是一樣的原因。為的就是讓你的眼睛可以適應室外的光線在逃生的時候可以增加生還的機會。

總和以上所說其實都是要讓乘客瞭解目前飛機的狀況。甚至飛機發生異常，如引擎失火等狀況
都可以協助機組人員儘速通報，所以這是很重要的一個動作

通常在降落的時候的景觀會是最漂亮的時候，不妨也把握這個機會來欣賞一下美景吧！

俞正耀暑期日记 —《坐飞机》
2010-09-07 14:11:53
http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_67f6163d0100l3dw.html

今天，我要坐飞机从昆明到杭州回家了。我坐在第8排。在起飞前，要系好安全带，调节好松紧度，把餐桌板扣上。还有呢观看了安全通知，紧急出口有6个，如何戴好氧气罩等等。

我感觉飞机的速度很快，一下子飞上天了，在飞上去的时候，要不停吃气或者是吃口香糖，因为那时感觉耳朵很痛，耳膜感觉不舒服。飞机在天上的时候，如果你有需要，可以按呼叫空姐的按纽。飞稳了以后，飞机上会发放点心，有鸡蛋、面包和小蛋糕等。吃好后，还早，只有十点二十三分，还有一个半小时才能到杭州。爸爸让我睡了三十分钟，到了五十三分时，我醒来了。醒来后，我认识了两个小朋友，他们叫和一起玩玩具，我说不用了。一会儿，正好哥哥也醒来了。空姐给我们送来了饮料，我选了可乐又加冰。喝好可乐后，我听见广播说马上要到杭州机场了，请系好安全带。在飞机向下的时候，人感觉轻飘飘地，一会儿只听到“嘭”的一下，轻轻地落到了地上后，飞机就开始急速地刹车，飞机的翅膀上伸开两翼，风声很大，刹稳了就进到了飞机的停机口。

我觉得坐飞机，特别兴奋。因为飞机升空的，感觉轻飘飘地，很舒服，而且飞机的翅膀会长长，飞的很快。同时，飞机在空中的时候，你能看到飞机下面是云海，飞机下降时，藏在云层中是，看见云没有形状，是无边形，很好看。

俞正耀

Updates

2010-10-04T22:01:00.005+08:00

Back at home (in Singapore) now. My mobile phone was stolen!!! Fuck the cheapskate. My mobile phone doesn't even worth more than SGD10 trade-in value. Return back to me, I will give you a treat at Mac Donalds. I will get 2 Extra Value Meals for you. You know what? They are worth more than my phone.

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Losing the phone is no big deal. Yeah, it does have some sentimental value. But thank goodness I backed-up most contact numbers in another phone some time ago. I received a SIM card replacement within 6 hours. The line will be activated again tomorrow. Everything's gonna be fine. I just cannot understand why the cheapskate wants to take my 5-year old phone, which has been with me through thick and thin. My sweat is there. My blood is there. The oil stain from the Bali fried rice that I ate this morning is also there too!

Are you deprived of SGD10? Or maybe you don't have a mobile phone just yet in this modern era and mine looks like a God-sent Christmas gift from Heaven?

GREED. This is a classic example of greed...and dishonesty too.

I am so going to lock BOTH my phone and SIM card from now on. If my phone were to be stolen again, don't even think about using the phone set.

I know some things are beyond our control. Life's like that~
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Being disconnected from the world poses some inconvenience. But strangely, it feels "peaceful". I can't think of a better word.
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What is Daylight Saving Time?

2010-10-02T12:51:00.003+08:00

For many countries that do not implement Daylight Saving Time (DST in short), it may not be easy to understand the rationale behind DST.

DST is also known as Summer Time. During summer, DST is adopted. During winter, standard time is adopted.

In summer, the Sun rises earlier and sets later than in winter. The clock is adjusted 1 hour ahead. One way to remember the direction in which the clock moves is “spring ahead, fall back.”

Example:
During summer, the Sun rises at 0600 hrs, when people are normally still sleeping. However, the clock will read 0700 hrs (because of clock adjustment). And because of this adjustment, people “wake up earlier than usual”, thus tapping on the use of sunlight.

As mentioned, the Sun also sets later during summer. So let say the Sun normally sets at 1900 hrs, the clock will actually read 2000 hrs. People only switch on the artificial light after 2000 hrs. Supposing people sleep at 2200 hrs, lights only need to be switched on for 2 hours.

Essentially, Daylight Saving Time aims to make the day appear longer, with hope of saving energy due to lesser artificial light needed during the evening hours.

English-Chinese Translation: Countries and Cities

2010-09-27T21:49:00.004+08:00

Malaysia 马来西亚
Kuala Lumpur 吉隆坡

Indonesia 印度尼西亚（俗称印尼）
Jakarta 雅加达 Denpasar (Bali) 登巴萨 (巴厘岛)

Thailand 泰国
Bangkok 曼谷

Vietnam 越南
Ho Chi Minh City 胡志明市 Hanoi 河内

Brunei 文莱
Bandar Seri Begawan 斯里巴加湾市

The Philippines 菲律宾
Manila 马尼拉

Australia 澳大利亚（俗称澳洲）
Brisbane 布里斯班 Sydney 悉尼 Melbourne 墨尔本 Adelaide 阿德莱德 Perth 珀斯

New Zealand 新西兰
Auckland 奥克兰 Christchurch 基督城

China 中国
Guangzhou 广州 Shanghai 上海 Beijing 北京 Hong Kong 香港

Taiwan 台湾
Taipei 台北

South Korea 南韩
Seoul 首尔

Japan 日本
Tokyo 东京 Nagoya 名古屋 Osaka 大阪 Fukuoka 福冈

Bangladesh 孟加拉
Dhaka 达卡

India 印度
Kolkata 加尔各答 Hyderabad 海得拉巴 Chennai (aka Madras) 金奈 Bangalore 班加罗尔 \
Mumbai 孟买 Ahmedabad 艾哈迈达巴德 Delhi 德里 Amritsar 阿姆利则

Maldives 马尔代夫
Male 马累

Sri Lanka 斯里兰卡
Colombo 科伦坡

United Arab Emirates 阿拉伯酋长国
Dubai 迪拜 Abu Dhabi 阿布扎比 Kuwait 科威特

Saudi Arabia 沙地（/特）阿拉伯
Jeddah 吉达

Egypt 埃及
Cairo 开罗

South Africa 南非
Johannesburg 约翰内斯堡 Cape Town 开普敦

The Netherlands 荷兰
Amsterdam 阿姆斯特丹

Greece 希腊
Athens 雅典

Spain 西班牙
Barcelona 巴塞罗那

Denmark 丹麦
Copenhagen 哥本哈根

Germany 德国
Frankfurt 法兰克福

Turkey 土耳其
Istanbul 伊斯坦布尔

United Kingdom 英国
London 伦敦 Manchester 曼彻斯特

Italy 意大利
Milan 米兰 Rome 罗马

France 法国
Paris 巴黎

Russia 尔罗斯
Moscow 莫斯克

Switzerland 瑞士
Zurich 苏黎世

United States of America 美国
New York 纽约 – Newark Airport 纽瓦克国际机场
New York 纽约– John F. Kennedy Airport 肯尼迪国际机场
San Francisco 旧金山 Los Angeles 洛杉矶 Houston 休斯敦

Interested to learn more? Visit http://www.chinese-tools.com/resources/places.html

Some Safety Tips While Travelling Aboard

2010-09-25T15:01:00.001+08:00

1) Prepare a survival kit (torch, a bottle of mineral water, whistle, portable radio transmiter) and always place it near you in hotel.
2) Locking the hotel room door is not enough. Always remember to latch the door.
3) Know the emergency contact numbers
4) Know the emergency/fire escape routes
5) Read up on the places that you are going to
6) Studies show that 1900 to 2200 hrs is the most vulnerable period for tourists
7) Never discuss about room number in public
8) Stay far away from suspicious characters
9) Avoid taking the same lift alone with strangers
10) Tell your friends where you are going
11) Use official taxis
12) If a robber states clearly the intention, give your valuables and don't attempt to fight back
13) If being attacked for no apparent reason, make as much noise and fight back with anything on hand
14) Seek advice from hotel regarding places of interest and dangerous areas to avoid
15) While waiting to check-in at the lobby, always place luggages in front of you. Never leave luggages unattended at the lobby.

When check-in to room, always make sure there is nobody hiding in the room. Sounds scary, yeah?

One final advice: When you are in Rome, do what the Romans do.

Alright, that's all for now.

A Note for People Who Experience Dry Eyes

2010-09-15T00:09:00.008+08:00

Some people experience dry eyes. Factors causing dry eyes include:

1. A common cause is aging. As we age, we produce less tears and the tears evaporate faster.

2. Physiological factor. Some people are not able to produce adequate natural tears or produce tears of poor quality and therefore the eyes are not properly lubricated.

3. Environmental factors can also play a role in eyes drying up. Examples include dusty air, dry or windy weather, or fumes like cigarette smoke.

4. The use of contact lens can also cause dry eyes.

5. Spending long hours on eyes straining activities.

6. Medical conditions may also cause dry eyes. Use of certain eye medications and some diseases may also lead to dry eyes.

People with dry dyes often feel discomfort in a variety of forms. Some symptoms include:

1. Itchiness

2. Redness

3. Excessive tearing without relief

4. Feeling of foreign body sensation in the eyes.

5. Discomfort after long period of eyes straining activities like watching TV, reading etc

I wear contact lenses almost every day. The thing is, I used to experience dry eyes. However, I don't have that problem now. In case you wonder, yes I am still wearing contact lenses. I didn't do Lasik surgery. Lasik surgery may be a convenient solution to dry eyes, but who knows what long term effect it might have, say 20-30 years down the road? It is after all quite a new technology, isn't it? Furthermore, there are known side effects associated with Lasik. Well, don't let dry eyes bother you. The good news is, it can be alleviated without surgery. Read on for more information...

Advice 1: Switch to a brand that suits you.
Some lenses are made of plastics that resist dehydration and evaporation. They include Proclear from CooperVision and Extreme H20 from Benz.

Alternatively, silicone hydrogel contact lenses such as Night and Day and AirOptix from CIBA Vision, PureVision from Bausch and Lomb, Acuvue Oasys from Johnson and Johnson are worth a try.

There is a wide range of contact lenses in the market and they are made of different materials. The most expensive product may not necessarily be the best for you, because your eyes react differently to different materials and curvature of the lenses.

For a contact lens solution, Clear Care (CIBA Vision) is recommended. For eyes re-lubricant, I would recommend Blink Intensive or Refresh Plus. Buy them in the one day sachet form as they do not contain preservatives. Dry eyes are sensitive and may experience irritation upon contact with preservatives.

Advice 2: Healthy lifestyle goes a long way
Sufficient sleep and a balanced diet with sufficient Omega-3 lipid components can have a significant impact on the control of dry eyes. Drink more water. Eat more vegetables and fruit. Place an air humidifier in an air-con room. Never rub your eyes no matter how uncomfortable they might feel.

Advice 3: Speak with an eye specialist
Another possibiliy is lacrimal occlusion. In this minor surgery, tiny plugs are inserted into the tear drainage holes in the eyelids. In other words, tears are contained in the eyes. It is believed to be safe and effective for those with clinically dry eyes and can help with comfortable contact lens wear. However, some doctors may not be comfortable with this surgery because it is "against the nature of body" to block the drainage holes. Please discuss this option with an eye specialist for more information.

Advice 4: 菊花汤

菊花6克
决明子9克
枸杞子9克
石斛(hu2) 12克
玉竹9克
糖

1。加3碗水
2。大火煮滚
3。调小火煮大约半小时
4。煮到剩1-2碗就可以喝了。
(一个星期喝两次）

***Disclaimer***
I accept no liability for the content in this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of the information provided.

Shanghai, China (1st Visit)

2010-09-14T15:59:00.007+08:00

^Above: China Pavillion at the Shanghai World Expo 2010 (I saw it from a distance)

^Above (Courtesy of Michelle): 5-star Toilet in Hotel Room

^Above (Courtesy of Michelle): One word - Awesome.

**DESTINATION FACTS**

Exchange Rate
1 Singapore dollar = 5.06101798 Chinese yuan

Main Airport serving Shanghai
Shanghai Pudong International Airport

Chinese Terms
没事儿：No worries, it is ok.
茶水：Tea
空调：Air-conditioner
国际登机：International Boarding
机场候机楼（也称航站楼）：Airport Terminal
出境大厅：Departure Hall
到达大厅：Arrival Hall
海关检查：Customs Examination
申报：Declare
航班延误：Flight Delay
可乐：Coke
轻怡可乐：Coke Light
七喜：7-Up
雪碧：Sprite
美年达：Mirinda
矿泉水：Mineral Water
依云水：Evian
气泡水：Sparkling Water
苏打水：Soda Water
国产啤酒：Local Beer
薯片：Potato Crisps
烈酒：Liquor
苏格兰威士忌：Scotch Whisky
波本威士忌：Bourbon Whisky
金酒（也称杜松子酒）：Dry Gin
伏特加：Vodka
白兰地：Brandy
科涅克白兰地：Cognac
龍舌蘭酒：Tequila
朗姆酒：Rum
味美思：Vermouth
葡萄(红/白)酒：Wine
鸡尾酒：Cocktail
小吃：Snack
屈臣氏：Watsons
便利店：Convenience Store
晴空乱流：Clear Air Turbulence
系上安全带：Fasten Seat Belt
当地时间：Local Time
通宁水（也称汤力水）：Tonic Water

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Well, more to come in near future...Stay tuned! I like to share what I know.

Body Clock Disrupted and I am Still Awake

2010-09-11T02:51:00.003+08:00

In my humble opinion, I think all of us can be rich one day. 3 key elements:

1) Discipline to control spending
2) Ability to differentiate needs and wants
3) Investment skills to make money grow on its own

Mark my words. That's my direction. I don't derive ANY satisfaction from owning branded products like Louis Vuitton and Prada. What long-term worth do they have. I want to buy and stay in a property using my own money, just like how my parents do it.

Along the way, I know some people might express disapproving view on my thrifty way of living. But you know what? I don't care. Who are they to tell me what to do.

I have a choice of how I want to live my life. I have a choice of what events I want to attend. I have a choice of what I want to spend on. No one can influence me, except for my parents who gave me my life.

Well...actually at the end of the day, I still spend quite a bit. I just bought a hair cut + treatment package (of 10 sessions) last month. And I intend to do a 2-hour massage in Shanghai this Sunday...

All these cost $$$, right?

Melbourne, Australia (1st Visit)

2010-09-10T18:32:00.005+08:00

^Above: Flinters Street Train Station

**DESTINATION FACTS**

Exchange Rate
1 Singapore dollar = 0.807270955 Australian dollars

In the the State of
Victoria

Main Airport serving Melbourne
Melbourne Airport

Australian Slangs
Ace! : Excellent! Very good!
Arvo : afternoon
Amber fluid : beer
Aussie : Australian
Beaut, beauty : great, fantastic
Big Mobs : loads, a lot of
Bloody : very
Bloody oath! : that's certainly true
Blue : argument/mistake
Bodgy : poor quality
Bonzer : great, ripper
Bottler : something excellent
Bottling his blood's worth: he's an excellent, helpful bloke
(you've got) Buckley's chance : no chance
Bull dust : rubbish
Cactus : dead, broken
Cark it : to die, stop working
Chocka : full up
Click : kilometre - "it's 20 clicks away"
Come a gutser : a bad mistake or have an accident
Come good : turn out ok
(not within) Cooee : figuratively a long way away
Cost big bikkies : expensive
Crack a fat : get an erection
(to) Cream : defeat by a large margin
(mad as a) Cut snake : very angry
(as dry as a) Dead dingo's donger : dry
Deadset : true / the truth
Dingo's breakfast : no breakfast
Dinkum / fair dinkum : true, real, genuine
Dinky-di : the real thing, genuine
Docket : a bill, receipt
Doco : documentary
Drink with the flies : to drink alone
(cunning as a) Dunny rat : very cunning
Exy : expensive
Fair dinkum : true, genuine
Fair go : a chance / break
Fair suck of the sav! : exclamation of wonder, awe, disbelief
Furphy : rumour
Good day : hello!
Give it a burl : try it, have a go
Give it away : give up
Going off : good fun
Good oil : useful information, a good idea, the truth
Good onya : well done
Grouse : great, terrific
Heaps : a lot
Iffy : dodgy
It's gone walkabout : it's lost, can't be found
Kangaroos loose in the top paddock : Intellectually inadequate
Kick the bucket : to die
Knock back : refuse
London to a brick : absolute certainty
(who opened their) Lunch : OK, who farted?
Mate's rate : cheaper than usual for a friend
Mate's discount : cheaper than usual for a friend
No worries! : no problem / its okay
(as dry as a) Nun's nasty : very dry
Piece of piss : easy task
Pig's arse! : I don't agree
(bring a) Plate : Instruction to bring a plate of food to a party
Pozzy : position
(make a) Quid : earn a living
Rack off : get lost! get out of here!
Reckon! : for sure
Ridgy-didge : original, genuine
Right : okay
Ripper : Great
Rooted : ruined, broken
She'll be apples : It'll be alright
She'll be right : it'll be okay
Sparrows fart : dawn
Strewth : exclamation
Stoked : very pleased
(I'll be) Stuffed : expression of surprise
Too right : definitely
(hit the) Turps : go on a drinking binge
(not worth a) Zack, : not worth anything

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I just came back from Melbourne. This is my first time to Melbourne.

A beautiful place.

The cost of living is quite high. Just a simple meal, without drink, would cost about AUD10/~. That is equivalent of SGD12. I guess it is ok to dine out once in a while with friends. But if you want to save up, it is probably better to you buy things from the supermarket and prepare your own meal.

Besides the marsupials (kangaroo, koala bears etc), what are some other things unique about Australia? That shall be my homework. I will be going to Melbourne again end of this month.

Related links:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melbourne
http://adamdoesaustralia.blogspot.com/2007/04/melbourne.html
http://www.worldtravelguide.net/city/78/city_guide/Australia-and-South-Pacific/Melbourne.html

Map of Melbourne:
http://www.hotels.com/hotel/details.html?reviewOrder=date_newest_first&roomno=1&destinationId=1633621&rooms[0].numberOfAdults=2&tab=maps&hotelId=118891&validate=false&destination=Melbourne%2C+Australia

Photos of Melbourne:
http://www.travelpod.com/photos/0/Australia/Melbourne.html

A SMS Message That Warmed My Heart

2010-09-06T21:14:00.004+08:00

“
Hey Dannie, thank you for the teacher's day message, that was really sweet n touching! You're a (...) student to have, full of (...) I have no doubt you'll excel in (...) Remember I told you last monday tt i'm not sure if u'll stay? I said tt because you're a v (...) person and sometimes (...) since it can be a routine after (...) just don't forget to keep learning (...) n you'll do great. Even better, look out for (...) when u (...)- AND SAVE MONEY. Take care Dannie.
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(...) - things that I have censored.

How we want to be remembered starts from the very first interaction with people. I may appear serious sometimes; but that's just how I look when I don't smile~ Ok, maybe I should just make more effort to smile...

When I die one day, I hope to be remembered as a kind and helpful person. I help people simply because I can; it is within my ability. Honestly, I gain nothing in the process. The only thing I gain is perhaps...a sense of gratification?

I just hope people don't take my kindness for weakness. Please, don't take me for granted. No one likes to be taken for granted, isn't it!

It seems like these days 现代人不会做人. I was once quite disturbed by this phenomenon. But, I have come to realize, no point lah, just live and let live.

有些话不是你想讲就开口讲的。要看人，要看事。想讲就讲 = 口不遮拦

Whatever you say will create perception in people's mind. It is this perception that makes or breaks. Some people call it situational awareness, others may call it self-monitoring.

I mean let's get real. This is the reality.

To Do List

2010-08-24T18:44:00.001+08:00

~~1. Buy cabin luggage~~ (I bought it at Changi Airport. It costs only S$25.90. Not bad for a 20" luggage that can be expanded into 22" if required. It is equipped with a lock for double protection.)

~~2. Clean toilet and scrub floor & wall~~ (Of all house chores, I dislike this the most. The mold and stains...arrggh yucks. But the end result always gives me a sense of satisfaction.)

~~3. Tidy up room~~ (I do this regularly, but this time round it was a thorough cleaning.)

~~4. Buy dual-clock watch with world times~~

5. Repair Kenneth Cole watch + Change strap

6. Review training notes

Ways to Improve Quality of Sleep

2010-08-21T16:10:00.003+08:00

1) Physical conditions of the place where a person sleeps.

1a. Sleep in a darkened room (switch off lights, use heavy curtains or a eye shade).

1b. Turn off mobile phone and use earplugs if necessary.

1c. Quality of sleep is better if the room is cooler rather than warmer.

2) Physiology of a person's body system.

2a. Sometimes we may experience insomnia. Try doing something quiet, like reading or something else relaxing to help in falling asleep.

2b. Avoid stimulants like nicotine and caffeine far enough in advance of bedtime. The effects of caffeine generally last 3-5 hours, but can last up to 10 hours for sensitive people.

2c. Going to bed hungry or with a very full stomach can make it harder to fall asleep. If you are hungry or thirsty at bedtime, eat a light snack or drink a small amount of fluids.

2d. Avoid alcohol just before bed. Alcohol may help you relax and fall asleep, but it disturbs the quality of sleep.

Something extra - Managing Jet Lag

The main cue our body uses to make us sleep during the night and be active during the day is light. The body’s internal clock is reset by exposure to bright light.

"Hao, this noodle is for you."

2010-08-19T23:16:00.003+08:00

Some people associate happiness with indulgence and materialism. Actually, happiness can be simple.

I am usually the first person in my family to wake up in the morning. To my surprise when I entered the kitchen this morning, I saw a note on the table.

"Hao, this noodle is for you." (Hao is my Mandarin name.)

There was no signing off. From the handwriting I knew it must be papa. I took a pair of chopsticks and started eating it. It was still warm, but slightly bland. HAHA. But knowing that it was my dad who cooked it specially for me, I finished up the whole bowl of noodle.

Then I went to the coffee machine. Papa also brewed a pot of coffee before he left for work. He knows I drink a cup of coffee every morning before leaving home.

My papa is a traditional fatherly figure. He occasionally cracks jokes but more often he tends to be stern. I guess that's why I am very moved by the note, the noodle and the coffee.

(Phonecall: "Hello, daddy. I ate the noodle already. I am going to work now. Thank you daddy. Bye bye.")
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Happiness can be simple...as simple as someone holding the door for you.

Learn English from This Fellow

2010-08-16T22:24:00.001+08:00

This video is really funny. I swear it's a must-watch.

Do a Good Turn Daily / 日行一善

2010-08-16T22:08:00.006+08:00

I was late for a gathering last evening because I did a good deed! An old lady was unsure which station she should alight because she has poor sense of hearing. I guess she can't read English either.

********Conversation in Mandarin********

(West-bound train pulling into Buona Vista station)

Old lady: Ah di (which means "boy"), I want to go Jurong (East) station. Should I alight now?

Me: No, auntie. We have not reached Jurong East station yet.

Old lady: Oh. I want to go Jurong (East) station, do a transfer and go to Yio Chu Kang station. But I can't hear very well.

Me: Ok auntie. I will inform you when we reach Jurong East station.

Actually, I was supposed to alight at Buona Vista station, but I decided to accompany that old lady to Jurong East. Anyway I was not rushing for time, so I continued my journey in the train...

She stood up when the train pulled into Jurong East station, turned to me and said "thank you" before alighting. I also alighted. I wanted to make sure she takes the correct train at the middle platform, instead of the one that heads back to the east. Indeed, she appeared unsure and fretted about boarding the train in the middle platform. I approached her, and offered her assurance.

"Auntie, this is the train. Ask someone again in the train for cues to alight at Yio Chu Kang station".

She thanked me again, before I made my way to the opposite platform where I could take the East-bound train back to Buona Vista station.

I don't think she would ever remember me again. I don't think she actually knew I was doing all that just for her. I realized sometimes in life, it is not all that important to be recognized for the things we do. We do the right things at the correct time for a good purpose. Full stop.

It seems like as we grow, we might tend to be more cynical, more realistic, less forgiving, less loving. People are so caught up in the rat race. They complain about everything under the sun. Riots, strikes, demonstrations...What we really need in this world is more love...true love! True love expects nothing in return. Love with an expectation for something in return is conditional love. Conditional love is not true love.

Humanitarian aids, for instance, pour in from many countries when a disaster befalls. Sounds really nice, huh! How many are given out of pure goodwill?

For diplomacy sake?

For international reputation?

There is room for questioning. See! I am cynical.

Just Some Food for Thought

2010-08-07T16:22:00.001+08:00

1) There are many nice people around. Some seem like they can be prospective good friends. Unfortunately sometimes, there is little opportunity to know each other further. It's a pity.

2) How you see yourself is ~~not~~ important. But how others see you is equally important. You may think that you have certain strengths. But you are not aware that some "strengths" may manifest themselves as weaknesses in the eyes of others.

This is why you also have to consider how others see you, because their observation reflects you as a person. If you only care about how you see yourself, you may disregard what others say and be happy with yourself. But the question is, will you improve?

There is a difference (in terms of the level of sensitivity) between self-awareness, awareness to surroundings, oversensitivity and insecurity. Being aware of things happening around you does not necessarily make you an insecure person. Similarly, verbalizing your observations does not necessarily mean that you think too much.

3) I would like to quote a textbook that I used in university. "People's behaviour is based on their perception of what reality is, NOT on reality itself."

All of us develop perception (or judgement) about others because of what we observe. To observe means to see or hear. Several factors operate to shape and sometimes distort perception. (One factor is the tone of voice, which I will elaborate below.) Once a negative perception is developed, it is difficult to undo. This is the reality, and reality seldom gives people a second chance.

Being non-judgemental is about seeing/listening/understanding deeper. It's not easy to be non-judgemental.

4) Watch your tone. Some conflicts arise due to the wrong choice of tone. Like I mentioned above, it's about perception in this world. A person might not even be aware that he/she has just offended somebody because of an inappropriate tone. This is a short interesting article about tone of voice: http://www.connectionsmagazine.com/articles/4/071.html

5) Everyone is different. It's good to ask and understand why something is done differently, but watch the focus in your statement. It should be emphasized on the matter, not the person.

Sometimes, I hear people make comments such as, "Eh, why did you xxx xxx?"

There are many better ways we can drive our points across. "I noticed xxx xxx was done like that. May I ask, is there any reason?"

It sounds less interrogative, isn't it?

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And again, after reading this post, some people might start to perceive that, "Awww, Dannie really thinks a lot."

Yes, I do think a lot, and I like to think. I write as a way to process my thoughts. I don't actually expect you to read.

Ways to Improve Yourself

2010-08-07T15:09:00.004+08:00

Actions speak louder than words.

Like I told the interviewer, my philosophy in life is never be contented with your present self. There is always room for improvement. We will never be perfect, but we can try to work towards that.

"When people tell you something, you learn humbly. Even if you already knew. It won't hurt to listen again."

Courtesy of: http://leilockheart.net/

做人

2010-08-03T22:09:00.003+08:00

试解词义

a) 人言可畏
答：人说的话可怕。比喻人说出口的字字句句可以耸人。
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b) 路遥知马力，日久见人心。
答：一头马的力量，需要某一段路途在能断定。比喻一个人的真性需要一段时间才会显露。
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c) 害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。
答：不要做会伤害到别人的事情，但也不可以太轻易相信他人。
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d) 见人只说三分话，不能全抛一片心。
答：     没答?
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Emotions

2010-08-02T22:47:00.001+08:00

Addiction

2010-07-31T17:22:00.001+08:00

I have recently developed a new addiction - shopping.

Some people like to shop at central areas like Orchard and Somerset, but personally, I prefer to shop at heartlands. Things are more reasonably priced. In fact, I just came back from Tampines Central. I spent less than $100. Bought some new clothes and pants. It was a pleasant spending spree.

"You will soon be exposed to many temptations. You must know your limits. I have a mountain of handbags in my room. I could have bought a second-hand car."

Someone said that yesterday.

I think I know my limits.

Updates

2010-07-30T22:10:00.002+08:00

I have not blogged for about 2 weeks. I apologize. You might think that the reason is because I am busy. Honestly, I was just lazy to write. Most of the time when I reach home, I would feel so tired that I don't want to engage my brain anymore. I guess it is because I try to pay attention when I am in class/training, and it can really be mind-boggling at the end of each day at work.

It is 30th July today. It has been about 1 month since I joined _ _ _. I have received my first pay slip last week. Which other job would pay you for learning? I have learnt so many useful things this month, not just things that are specfic to the industry but also things that are applicable in life, such as communication etc.

I am glad that I took the module MNO1001 Management and Organization in National University of Singapore (NUS) before I quitted school. Some concepts taught in MNO1001 include job-personality fit, recruitment process, training and organizational culture. Things that I learnt in school back then are very theoretical. I am seeing for myself now how an organization really operates. It is the real deal. And I am talking about an organization that has operations in many countries across the world. I am very excited, because there is so much to learn, and I want to constantly improve myself. I want to meet people. I want to see the world. I want to widen my horizon…

"We sleep 1/3 of our lives away." — Albert Einstein

"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle." — Albert Einstein

Life is short...so short. Our physical existence on Earth is merely a transition.

Chijmes and Supperclub

2010-07-27T21:35:00.000+08:00

Setting: Chijmes (La Cave Winebar and Restaurant)
Date: 23 Jul 2010, Friday
Time: 10:30 PM

Me: Eh, after that we going supperclub is it?

Someone: Yes.

Me: But aren't we already eating now? Why go for supper again?

Someone: (-_-)

Supperclub is a night club, not a place for supper. I didn't know that at first. I feel so ignorant. Anyway, 13 of us showed up at supperclub, unfortunately we didn't manage to take a group photo. It was our second batch outing that night.

Just for Fun

2010-07-18T23:11:00.004+08:00

I recorded my singing. It is about 1 minute long. Please don't be too critical. It's just for fun. Anyway, this is my blog. I can post anything that I want...

Who wants to learn singing with me? I am interested but have no one to sign up with.

少年 (歌手:光良/曹格)

你又想起某个夏天

热闹海岸线

记忆中的那个少年

骄傲的宣言

伸出双手就能拥抱全世界

相信所有的梦想一定会实现

一切看起来都不会太遥远

转眼之间过了几年

轻浮的语言都已经慢慢沉淀

即使难免会变得更加洗练

我们~不曾妥协

My Cup of Tea

2010-07-18T13:12:00.001+08:00

Ronald: What's with you and puppies?

Dannie: Huh? What's with me and puppies?

Ronald: That's what I am asking you now, dude.

Dannie: I like puppies and people who look like puppies.

Ronald: What the fuck! Any examples?

Dannie: It's for me to know, and for you to find out...an example would be Kim Ah Joong from Korea (the one who acted in 200 Pounds Beauty)...the innocent-looking factor must be present. The eyes play a big part in creating that look.

Ronald: So now I know what's your cup of tea.

Dannie: LOL. Yes. My cup of coffee too.

Clubbing at Butter Factory

2010-07-17T14:02:00.005+08:00

All of us had so much fun last night. I had never gone clubbing with so many friends before. 14 of us, including myself. I mean, yeah...I do have some really good friends from High School and University, but they seldom club. A minority does, but they are scattered in different groups...

The music at Butter Factory last night was good. I drank Long Island Iced Tea and Hoe Garden. Everyone seemed to be a little conscious about our image at first (after all we have always conducted ourselves very properly at work)...but as the night went by we gradually loosened up and danced to the music. I sweated so much.

I saw a different side of every one. It was a joyful night.

Puppies

2010-07-17T13:08:00.000+08:00

Puppies are so cute. Seeing them makes me smile.

Puss In Boots

2010-07-14T01:44:00.000+08:00

Spending So Much...

2010-07-12T23:57:00.005+08:00

I have not received my pay, and guess what? I have been spending so much money. It seems like I am spending more generously these days. It is scary because I don't feel guilty now when I spend, unlike in the past when I would feel a subconscious pressure to control my spending.

I am going to break down my expenditure for my reference. You don't have to read it if you don't want to.

28 Jul 2010, Monday
Tie - $12
Eyebrow Plucking Package - $50

2 Jul 2010, Friday
Acuvue Contact Lens and Solution - $70

3 Jul 2010, Saturday
Dinner at Thai Express, Marina Square - $20
Clubbing - $50
Cab back after clubbing - $15

10 Jul 2010, Saturday
Dinner at Sudanese Restaurant, Suntec City - $30
Clubbing - $20 (I drove that night. Saved on cab fare.)

12 Jul 2010, Monday
Lancome products - $100
Dinner at Jack's Place, Parkway Parade - $30
Car Petrol - $30

28 Jul 2010 - 12 Jul 2010 (~2 weeks)
Miscellaneous - $50

= $427

My parents will surely nag at me if they find out that I have been spending so much. I remember I used to be thrifty during my NS days, so much so that I would even pack food from home to camp for lunch every day. I shall activate that side of me again, at least for the next 2 weeks, before my pay arrives.

I wish I could save on the eyebrow plucking. Pay to suffer the pain of plucking. Not that I have a choice. My eyebrows are very bushy like 蜡笔小新. If I don't trim, I will look fierce. Well, I am thankful that I have thick bushy eyebrows. At least I have spare eyebrows to play around with.

Gosh. And I will be going to Butter Factory this Friday night with my colleagues...I guess I will probably spend another $30 or so on drinks?
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If you are reading this...

2010-07-11T14:47:00.003+08:00

We first met each other on 4 July. I was afraid that we would never meet again.
We saw each other again on 11 July. I am happy but I was shy at first.
I received your 1st sms on 11 July, 4:05AM. I was driving then so I could not reply you.

You are so adorable and frolicsome like a puppy. I like the way you dance. I like the way you look into my eyes with some shy. I like the way you are.

I have no one else in my mind, only you. I might not know what I wanted at first. I am sorry for confusing you. I am not going to take chances now. I made a choice, and I want to take ownership, please...may I?

Updates

2010-07-11T14:04:00.003+08:00

My sincere apologies for not blogging regularly these days.

There seems to be a dip in the number of visitors daily.

Today, I shall briefly answer the question, "How is it?" As all of you know, I have to be very careful in my choice of words and in the things that I write about. That's the reason why I had to delete a few posts pertaining to that.

I would say it has been a great learning experience. There is a lot of things to learn, so much so that at the end of each day, I would be too tired to do anything else. The second week was less tiring than the first week though. I guess it is because I am starting to get used to the pace and environment. Another reason is because my eyes are feeling better. Instead of using Acuvue Trueye daily disposable lens, I have switched to Acuvue Oasys fortnightly disposable lens. It feels more comfortable and less drying. I had thought that daily disposable lens would be the most comfortable of all...but apparently that is not the case.

Previously, I thought of doing lasik surgery, but I am thinking twice because of the possible risks and complications. My biggest concern is the possibility of developing myopia again after surgery. I know that enhancement surgeries can be done should that happen, but why put the eyes at risk? They are my only assets. *himbo moment* And maybe my eyebrows too.

Anyway, I met Ryan on my way home from work a few days ago. Like me, Ryan just started work recently. We had a short conversation, and throughout the conversation, Ryan grumbled about how annoying this new colleague of his is. According to Ryan, this colleague, XXX, is full-of-himself. XXX seems to think that he knows a lot, just because he is a few years older than the rest in the department. Ryan could sense that XXX is a scheming person. I was very tired so I didn't ask for details. I just listened as Ryan went on and on. I could hear that Ryan really hates XXX very much. Ryan is a very genuine person. He doesn't fake. I have known Ryan for almost 22 years. If Ryan hates a person, he will show it. I have reminded him many times that sometimes it may be necessary to contain any resentment for the sake of peace and harmony at workplace. However, he doesn't heed my advice. Last time, when Ryan was serving National Service, there was this person whom he dislikes too. That person's name is Benn. The whole platoon knew that Ryan and Benn are on bad terms.

Aye, that's life. You can't possibly like everyone whom you meet. Similarly, it is difficult that everyone likes the way you are. Sometimes, we just have to live and let live.

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I want to be a puppy, but where is my owner?
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